How do I convince my crush that I am not stalking her

I have a crush on this girl.I can remember the first time we talked it went well my best friend was her classmate so I asked him if he can tell her that I like her. ( i know that I should have got to know her better but the young me was too dumb to care ) She reacted positively to what my friend had said Abou me having a crush on her so one random day she called me out of the class I got to scared I didn’t get out as the whole class was looking at me then when I finally got out to talk to her I slipped I fell on the ground. A few weeks later I propose to her sayd that she doesn’t know me for a long time so she asked me let’s be friends and walked away I checked online and it meant that let’s be friends was a strict NO . so from that day I never never talked to her but I frequently met her in hallway like a lot One of my friends is in the same bus as her he told me that she is telling everyone that I am a stalker and I was stalking her all my friends friends call me by her name and make fun of me because I got rejected I met her even at a concert and all the time in the school ground but now that I have started to avoid her I noticed that even she is avoiding me there is more to this but I have told u guy the important things please let me know if there is a chance that I can convince her that I am not stalking her ( because if I see a girl in the hallway a lot dose that means I am stalking her ???)

Reply 1

Zarek

21

Just leave her totally alone and look instead for someone else instead

Reply 2

mathperson

20

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by Anonymous

I have a crush on this girl.I can remember the first time we talked it went well my best friend was her classmate so I asked him if he can tell her that I like her. ( i know that I should have got to know her better but the young me was too dumb to care ) She reacted positively to what my friend had said Abou me having a crush on her so one random day she called me out of the class I got to scared I didn’t get out as the whole class was looking at me then when I finally got out to talk to her I slipped I fell on the ground. A few weeks later I propose to her sayd that she doesn’t know me for a long time so she asked me let’s be friends and walked away I checked online and it meant that let’s be friends was a strict NO . so from that day I never never talked to her but I frequently met her in hallway like a lot One of my friends is in the same bus as her he told me that she is telling everyone that I am a stalker and I was stalking her all my friends friends call me by her name and make fun of me because I got rejected I met her even at a concert and all the time in the school ground but now that I have started to avoid her I noticed that even she is avoiding me there is more to this but I have told u guy the important things please let me know if there is a chance that I can convince her that I am not stalking her ( because if I see a girl in the hallway a lot dose that means I am stalking her ???)

I mean, the fact that a situation has developed where you feel you need to convince her that you're not stalking her should tell you something in itself.

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

Yeah, nah bro you ain’t nothing close to a stalker I have a story real quick I wanna share. So pretty much earlier this year I developed a crush on this girl and basically like you said to… I really didn’t say a word to her but I wanted to ask her out so I sent her a Gmail asking if she wanted to and I remember her replying back telling me awww your so sweet

My dumbass should have just left it alone after that but I’m an absolute idiot in the decision I made ****ed my not only seventh grade year, but eighth grade year

So I Gmail’ed back saying so you trying to be my gf? And she said no end of story right? Wrong!!!! I talked to the popular kid and he was telling me how she’s going around telling pepole that I’m stalking her and I was like WTF? and so I had to get down to the bottom of it so I asked him not to long after that why she thinks I’m stalking her and she made up the baseless claim of saying I gmailed her saying I was watching her and i was like BRO THIS ***** and now everyone in the school hates me and thinks I’m a stalker and life sucks and it’s all cause that stinky ahhhh puss brat lying to everyone about something I didn’t do. But the point is not about me. The point is you’re not a stalker and if people start saying you are and there lying like tell them verbally to shut the **** up something I don’t have enough balls to do but or tell a principal or something but what I’m saying is don’t let them lie and get away with it

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