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Miscarriage after abusive relationship

I recently left an abusive relationship while pregnant. I told the guy I was pregnant when I found out but he didn't care at the time. Part of me feels scared to tell him about the miscarriage but I'm wondering if it's wrong of me
Original post by Anonymous
I recently left an abusive relationship while pregnant. I told the guy I was pregnant when I found out but he didn't care at the time. Part of me feels scared to tell him about the miscarriage but I'm wondering if it's wrong of me

I am sorry for your loss.

As this was an abusive relationship, I would encourage you not to contact him. The fact that you are considering it shows that you still have some lingering emotion there and that makes you vulnerable and open to risk near him.

Use your support network to recover and move on. Give your career some attention, look at getting promoted, network etc. After awhile you will find yourself in a good place with healthy opportunities around you.

Good luck.
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Original post by Anonymous
I am sorry for your loss.

As this was an abusive relationship, I would encourage you not to contact him. The fact that you are considering it shows that you still have some lingering emotion there and that makes you vulnerable and open to risk near him.

Use your support network to recover and move on. Give your career some attention, look at getting promoted, network etc. After awhile you will find yourself in a good place with healthy opportunities around you.

Good luck.

Thanks for the message.


I'm unemployed atm thoufh so I can't do the stuff you said promotion and networking
Original post by Anonymous
Thanks for the message.
I'm unemployed atm thoufh so I can't do the stuff you said promotion and networking

Oh, then you should definitely putg your energy into finding a job. It will give you financial independence, enable you to keet new people, improve your self esteem and you'll be contributing to improving the economy.
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Original post by Anonymous
Oh, then you should definitely putg your energy into finding a job. It will give you financial independence, enable you to keet new people, improve your self esteem and you'll be contributing to improving the economy.


Ok

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