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Crush at college.

Hello, so I am in year12 at college and I think I have a crush on this person. They do an art diploma course as I do alevel, so we don’t have any lessons together. We haven’t ever hung out properly apart from walking around a career festival with my friend. We’ve had little conversations in real life and on Instagram though and have mutual friends. I really want to get to know them better and I think they are very cool and nice. I haven’t ever had a crush before apart from primary and I haven’t been In a relationship before so I guess I am more awkward about this type of thing. My best friend has lessons with them but I am too embarrassed to ask my friend if they could invite them to hang out. Does anyone have any advice? As I said I want to get to know them more but I don’t want to make them uncomfortable or feel weird.
It's great that you want to get to know your crush better, and it's perfectly normal to feel awkward about it, especially if it's your first time navigating these feelings. Since you already had little conversations in real life and on Instagram, continue building on that. Send them a message about something you both have in common or something interesting that happened at college. Keep it casual and friendly.

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