Why does everyone think I'm bi?

Hey! 👋
So I've had 6 people ask me now if I'm gay or Bi and now I'm kinda questioning if they are seeing something I'm not lol. Like apparently I "just give off those vibes"??

I have thought about it a lot and I don't think I would be particularly adverse to it but I am definitely not lesbian.

I also find that I love gay shows and books (i.e Heartstopper) and I seem to always befriend people who are LGBTQ as I just enjoy the energy and humour...

Idk pls help 😭😂

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

Hey! 👋
So I've had 6 people ask me now if I'm gay or Bi and now I'm kinda questioning if they are seeing something I'm not lol. Like apparently I "just give off those vibes"??
I have thought about it a lot and I don't think I would be particularly adverse to it but I am definitely not lesbian.
I also find that I love gay shows and books (i.e Heartstopper) and I seem to always befriend people who are LGBTQ as I just enjoy the energy and humour...
Idk pls help 😭😂

sometimes people just seem gay-er. i'm bi myself and have had girls ask me if im lesbian (and they're always straight agh) recently one girl told me i look gay because of my shoes. no clue what she meant. if u don't think ur bi, ur probably not.

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Doomotron

I get it too, and I can confirm that I am straight.

Reply 3

Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

Hey! 👋
So I've had 6 people ask me now if I'm gay or Bi and now I'm kinda questioning if they are seeing something I'm not lol. Like apparently I "just give off those vibes"??
I have thought about it a lot and I don't think I would be particularly adverse to it but I am definitely not lesbian.
I also find that I love gay shows and books (i.e Heartstopper) and I seem to always befriend people who are LGBTQ as I just enjoy the energy and humour...
Idk pls help 😭😂

It quite literally is the vibe you give off. I'm straight but for the past 2 years in sixthform, my whole friend group thought I was bi and they only confronted me 1 month before study leave. Even by best friend who i knnew for 15 years said "i wish she had the courage to come out".
Some pople just feel a vibe abt someone for no apparent reason - to this day idk why. But the fact that you're shocked by this may indicate ur not bi. Nothing wrong with it but I know how u feel, bc it can make u question everything you've done lol