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verbal abuse

what is considered verbal abuse by parents? And what can you do about it
Some signs that you are experiencing verbal abuse include:

You are afraid of your abuser

You feel like you have to walk on eggshells around the other person

You feel like you cannot share things about yourself with them for fear that they will mock or ridicule you

You're afraid to go out in public with them because of what they will say about you in front of other people

You feel threatened

You feel as if you are constantly being put down about how you look, think, act, dress, or talk

You feel inferior or ashamed about who you are

They yell at you but then suggest that you are overly sensitive or that you don't have a sense of humor

They overreact to small problems and then blame you for the resulting argument

They suggest that they are the victim and try to make you feel guilty about something they accuse you of doing

They hide this verbal abuse when you are around other people but act completely different when you are alone

If you believe you are experiencing this and can't challenge it directly, speak to a trusted adult such as another family member or teacher. If you are under 19 you can try Childline:
Childline is free, confidential and available any time, day or night. You can talk to us:

by calling 0800 1111

by email

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Original post by Surnia
Some signs that you are experiencing verbal abuse include:

You are afraid of your abuser

You feel like you have to walk on eggshells around the other person

You feel like you cannot share things about yourself with them for fear that they will mock or ridicule you

You're afraid to go out in public with them because of what they will say about you in front of other people

You feel threatened

You feel as if you are constantly being put down about how you look, think, act, dress, or talk

You feel inferior or ashamed about who you are

They yell at you but then suggest that you are overly sensitive or that you don't have a sense of humor

They overreact to small problems and then blame you for the resulting argument

They suggest that they are the victim and try to make you feel guilty about something they accuse you of doing

They hide this verbal abuse when you are around other people but act completely different when you are alone

If you believe you are experiencing this and can't challenge it directly, speak to a trusted adult such as another family member or teacher. If you are under 19 you can try Childline:
Childline is free, confidential and available any time, day or night. You can talk to us:

by calling 0800 1111

by email


Does the person have to be experiencing ALL of the signs?
Original post by ammy.xuu
Does the person have to be experiencing ALL of the signs?

No. Abuse takes many forms, even more than listed, so not everything will happen to one person.

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