I emailed Isaac about this question before hand and heres the reply if youre curious - I asked them the same question of why you should not consider weight for the resultant force.
"You are right to consider the effect of the constant weight. In the impulse limit of delta t tending to zero, the applied force F tends to infinity, so that the product of the two is a finite result. So with a very large force for a very short time, subtracting the weight for the large force becomes a negligible change. So it does require a short time for the impulse to act.
It is not very intuitive, but it is a result of taking a limit."
They dont mention normal reaction force (or the "wheelie force") - so I guess it would be a combination of both arguments of why weight can be ignored, but tbh the wheelie force argument makes more sense to me.