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What name should i call him?

i cheated on my bf in the past emotionally,but after realising it ,I have and am trying to prove to him my love and loyalty with everthing possiblee.I donot talk to any guy and i keep him updated with videocalls every 10 mins wherever i go.Today i forgot to share him my location due to exam stress and he couldnt track me,so he got ****ed off and told he would stay at the gym till 5:30 when he was only the one who told that the gym gets crowded and filled by girls after 5:30.As a punishment of not sharing my location,he stayd at thee gym till 5:30 when he knew how insecure i was and that he violated his words himself and stayed knowing girls might ask him out.He stayed and as expected a girl asked for his number.I am super disgusted and sad,what can this act of him be named?
this is a toxic relationship
you have the right to your own privacy
at the same time, cheating is still wrong
you two are not right for each other
leave and focus on your exams x
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Original post by Forlornsoul
this is a toxic relationship
you have the right to your own privacy
at the same time, cheating is still wrong
you two are not right for each other
leave and focus on your exams x

Oh thank you so much!I appreciate your advice.I have been trying for around 3 years to prove to him but nothing seems to work.
Original post by Anonymous
Oh thank you so much!I appreciate your advice.I have been trying for around 3 years to prove to him but nothing seems to work.

you can't win with these people
they will never see the error of their ways
i urge you to leave for your safety and sanity
Original post by Anonymous
i cheated on my bf in the past emotionally,but after realising it ,I have and am trying to prove to him my love and loyalty with everthing possiblee.I donot talk to any guy and i keep him updated with videocalls every 10 mins wherever i go.Today i forgot to share him my location due to exam stress and he couldnt track me,so he got ****ed off and told he would stay at the gym till 5:30 when he was only the one who told that the gym gets crowded and filled by girls after 5:30.As a punishment of not sharing my location,he stayd at thee gym till 5:30 when he knew how insecure i was and that he violated his words himself and stayed knowing girls might ask him out.He stayed and as expected a girl asked for his number.I am super disgusted and sad,what can this act of him be named?

Updating someone every 10 minutes is not a way to live your life wtf, leave his ass immediately. I mean realistically do you see yourself able to keep that up for the rest of your life? Also, him giving girls his number to get back at you is not a healthy way to deal with things and sounds really immature - personally I think that there isn't a point being with people that childish as it'll just lead to more stress and disagreements later idk.

Good luck with whatever you do anyway
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Original post by Anonymous
Updating someone every 10 minutes is not a way to live your life wtf, leave his ass immediately. I mean realistically do you see yourself able to keep that up for the rest of your life? Also, him giving girls his number to get back at you is not a healthy way to deal with things and sounds really immature - personally I think that there isn't a point being with people that childish as it'll just lead to more stress and disagreements later idk.
Good luck with whatever you do anyway

Yeah you're pretty right.Its very difficult to do that every day .If I miss one of the calls he namecalls me and brings hell upon me.I understand the trauma he went through but it becomes unbearable at times.I have tried a lot of things to try to convert it into a healthy relationship but nothing works.He never agrees for therapy.
Thank you so much for your valuable advice.I appreciate it a lot.

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