Why am i like this?

Basically, every time i start talking to a boy, I think i really like him and want to date him. But then i see a new guy and think he’s better looking and i want to date him more than the other guy. The cycle goes on and on and i don’t know why i’m like this. I feel like if i get into a relationship i wouldn’t be able to commit to the person i’m dating. Don’t get me wrong i would never cheat on them but I feel like i would lose interest in them fast so i’m scared nothing is going to work out for me romantically. Please help!

Reply 1

elareare

19

Original post by Anonymous

Basically, every time i start talking to a boy, I think i really like him and want to date him. But then i see a new guy and think he’s better looking and i want to date him more than the other guy. The cycle goes on and on and i don’t know why i’m like this. I feel like if i get into a relationship i wouldn’t be able to commit to the person i’m dating. Don’t get me wrong i would never cheat on them but I feel like i would lose interest in them fast so i’m scared nothing is going to work out for me romantically. Please help!

just wait till you have a dude you rlly rlly like, and would commit to, as opposed to an 'oh, he's kinda cute, i'd date him!' kinda feeling

Reply 2

BraeLynnT

16

I feel like you losing interest in guys quickly would change because once you start dating one, it'll feel "real" Then you will commit to them because you actually have them.

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

Basically, every time i start talking to a boy, I think i really like him and want to date him. But then i see a new guy and think he’s better looking and i want to date him more than the other guy. The cycle goes on and on and i don’t know why i’m like this. I feel like if i get into a relationship i wouldn’t be able to commit to the person i’m dating. Don’t get me wrong i would never cheat on them but I feel like i would lose interest in them fast so i’m scared nothing is going to work out for me romantically. Please help!

Tbh I feel like I might be the same way lol

Reply 4

Meheraj

19

No offence to anyone, but that is why I believe there should be a certain age at which a person should begin dating or be in a relationship. Maturity and experience teach people to think deeply before taking action or making decisions.

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

Original post by Meheraj

No offence to anyone, but that is why I believe there should be a certain age at which a person should begin dating or be in a relationship. Maturity and experience teach people to think deeply before taking action or making decisions.

Yeah, I get that.

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