i left my group and now i'm rlly lonely

so i was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to make new friends??
i left my friendgroup a while ago because i felt left out and i thought it was the right thing to do. i had backup friends who invited me to hang out with them but suddenly they both just stopped speaking to me and turned against me and now i have no one
i'm not sure what i've done wrong but no one is telling me anything rn and i'm a bit confused so yh

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Anonymous #1

Original post by ilikelemons123

so i was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to make new friends??
i left my friendgroup a while ago because i felt left out and i thought it was the right thing to do. i had backup friends who invited me to hang out with them but suddenly they both just stopped speaking to me and turned against me and now i have no one
i'm not sure what i've done wrong but no one is telling me anything rn and i'm a bit confused so yh

talk to them!! Communication is so key don't let things such as miscommunciation stop freidnships! ive learn thtta the hard way just be opn with them and they should be with you too

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Anonymous #2

Original post by ilikelemons123

so i was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to make new friends??
i left my friendgroup a while ago because i felt left out and i thought it was the right thing to do. i had backup friends who invited me to hang out with them but suddenly they both just stopped speaking to me and turned against me and now i have no one
i'm not sure what i've done wrong but no one is telling me anything rn and i'm a bit confused so yh

Acting like the main character is ur problem 💀

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Original post by ilikelemons123

so i was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to make new friends??
i left my friendgroup a while ago because i felt left out and i thought it was the right thing to do. i had backup friends who invited me to hang out with them but suddenly they both just stopped speaking to me and turned against me and now i have no one
i'm not sure what i've done wrong but no one is telling me anything rn and i'm a bit confused so yh

This happened to me too- in yr11 I had some fake friends who used to make fun of me and I eventually stopped hanging out with them. I ended up sitting by myself every day for a few months until I got asked by someone from my maths if I wanted to sit with them. I quickly became part of the group and remain best friends with one of them now in sixth form. Honestly sixth form feels so much better as there is a lot less gossiping and "popular" groups- people have their own little groups.

Honestly in my case I wish I'd left sooner and just asked people I knew to sit with them until I found the right group.

I also agree that you should talk to them to try and figure out what went wrong, but don't stress over it too much as the likelihood is you won't remain friends with these people your whole life.

Finally just know that it wont last and you will either fix things or find some new friends soon :smile:

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Anonymous #3

if u feel like your not welcomed in the friend group or u were never happy there u should definitely find new friends cos u deserve to be happy. Sometimes its better to be part of a smaller group of friends, so look around you and find the right group, maybe someone who you know well? someone u sat next to once and got on well with? someone who u can relate to? But also try to talk with ur friend group and find out what the problem is - it always feels good to get the weight off ur chest!

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Anonymous #4

Original post by Anonymous

Acting like the main character is ur problem 💀

how on earth are they ‘acting like the main character’ wtf

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Wired_1800

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Original post by ilikelemons123

so i was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to make new friends??
i left my friendgroup a while ago because i felt left out and i thought it was the right thing to do. i had backup friends who invited me to hang out with them but suddenly they both just stopped speaking to me and turned against me and now i have no one
i'm not sure what i've done wrong but no one is telling me anything rn and i'm a bit confused so yh

Go back to your friendship group. Good luck

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Kallisto

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Original post by ilikelemons123

so i was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to make new friends??
i left my friendgroup a while ago because i felt left out and i thought it was the right thing to do. i had backup friends who invited me to hang out with them but suddenly they both just stopped speaking to me and turned against me and now i have no one
i'm not sure what i've done wrong but no one is telling me anything rn and i'm a bit confused so yh

If you are seriously interest in meeting new friends: go out in the public or join sport clubs.

i left my group and now i'm rlly lonely

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