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how can i tell my dad my moms' cheating?

found out that my mom's been cheating on my dad thru her whatsapp messages, getting very defensive, told me she was going out with her work colleague [who ik the name of] more time she's out there meeting her new man. i look at her now and all i see is disgust, she makes me uncomfortable, don't like being in her presence at all cuz i look at her and i don't see a mom i see a prostitute. everything she does just ****es me tf off tbh.....

i really wanna tell my dad but ive never had a convo like this with him so idk how he would react and in case it backfires, i'm moving out my house fs [im 17 so i know i can't legally do that but if that's the only choice then i will] and going to live somewhere else cuz idk how he would be ok with his so cheating on him. i also want her to be publicly shamed, ive never had a good rs with her and i don't want one with her cuz of some stuff she's done in the past that are very traumatic nd stuff. tbh ig ive been 'detached' from her from a young age, i just don't feel that love one feels with their parents. what can i do, to tell a family member without them dismissing me or telling me it's all false. perhaps tell my aunt first?
Original post by heroinfather
found out that my mom's been cheating on my dad thru her whatsapp messages, getting very defensive, told me she was going out with her work colleague [who ik the name of] more time she's out there meeting her new man. i look at her now and all i see is disgust, she makes me uncomfortable, don't like being in her presence at all cuz i look at her and i don't see a mom i see a prostitute. everything she does just ****es me tf off tbh.....
i really wanna tell my dad but ive never had a convo like this with him so idk how he would react and in case it backfires, i'm moving out my house fs [im 17 so i know i can't legally do that but if that's the only choice then i will] and going to live somewhere else cuz idk how he would be ok with his so cheating on him. i also want her to be publicly shamed, ive never had a good rs with her and i don't want one with her cuz of some stuff she's done in the past that are very traumatic nd stuff. tbh ig ive been 'detached' from her from a young age, i just don't feel that love one feels with their parents. what can i do, to tell a family member without them dismissing me or telling me it's all false. perhaps tell my aunt first?

set it up so ur dad finds out himself, for eg send him ss from unknow account leave phone near him record voice calls etc
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'Mom' - do you live in the US.

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