I view romantic relationships kind of like having a best friend. You share your experiences and memories with one another, laugh with each other, and provide support when your partner is feeling down. If one partner feels too exhausted to do something, the other picks up their slack for them, vice versa. I want to explore places with my partner (if I ever have one lol) and I think being with someone inspirational and supportive is really important. Because you can learn a lot from them and grow as a person. So even though I might meet someone who I find physically attractive, I think who they and what value they can bring into my life is crucial. I don't want to waste my time getting with someone who I don't truly value or am compatible with. Honestly, growing up my parents never talked about the romance side of relationships, only the 'support' side of it so that might be why I view relationships this way.