Muslim Girls SHOULD date

This is nonsense. You are most likely a kaafir with a fetish. May Allaah deal with you.

Bit judgemental don't you think?

Yes... it may be haram/become haram if you do silly things, but no one is gonna come looking for you at home. Oh and ALL (well at least 90.5%) of your Muslim brothers are already doing this.

Yes... it may be haram/become haram if you do silly things, but no one is gonna come looking for you at home. Oh and ALL (well at least 90.5%) of your Muslim brothers are already doing this.

I am a 17yr old Muslim girl myself and I’m telling you now it is not worth it. Anything Allah has made haram is for YOUR benefit and no one else’s. He knows what is going to happen and is just saving you from harm. If you leave something haram (e.g dating) for the sake of Allah, Allah promises to give you something better. Also I am well aware that many Muslim brothers do date and do haram things but I have faith that Allah will give me a man that hasn’t done these things just like I have avoided them. And girl I know that it is difficult to stay away from dating ,and that it’s sooo tempting due to the environment we live in. When I have these temptations, I remember that it’s a small sacrifice compared to what you’re promised in jannah. Jannah will have everything you want and more
..but is only reserved for those who avoid haram and obey Allah (The one who created you and provided for you)
May Allah guide me and you and keep us away from all types of haram and allow us to be inhabitants of Jannah.

How is anyone doing this

I'm surprised that you are surprised 😂

Thanks for your response. I absolutely agree with you. I think I should maybe rephrase what I said before.
Sadly, a lot of Muslim girls that think like you, (although you are still quite young; but very mature I believe), lots of girls with your mindset end up single until their late 20s/ early 30s and this is usually not by choice. They of course are more God fearing I'd say than their male counterparts (and just less stupid lmao) but also quite naive when it comes to getting to know people for marriage. Whilst some people are set up by their parents, it is extremely unlikely that even that fella is who you hope for. Majority of men will commit zina by the time they have hit 20. I am not saying that us girls should do the same and go about things the wrong way and I am not saying we should judge those men either, but as a sister, I don't want you to get your hopes up because it is almost impossible to find a guy who hasn't "messed about" in the western world. In sha Allah I hope you do, as do I, but I am a bit older than you and have already seen things for what they truly are in this awful world.
All I really meant to say is that we should explore our options, maybe have some phone conversations, go to a cafe, ask all the serious questions first etc. Even bring a chaperone if you really want to. Dating doesn't always have to be s** and kissing and making babies.

I'm surprised that you are surprised 😂

There are a lot of good muslim men out here. You must be around bad men to think most men commit zina.

I have genuinely never spoken to a Muslim man who is a virgin.

Then you've proved my point. It's not a good mindset to think like that e.g. all women are h0es, all men are cheaters. Idk how old you are but if your young, forget all of this 'love' stuff, it barely exists for us young ppl.

I have genuinely never spoken to a Muslim man who is a virgin.

And I've met plenty, what is your point? Why are you interacting with so many Muslim men such that you know that a majority are committing zina? Regardless, this will never justify you encouraging people to date; you are just causing corruption on the earth.

And I've met plenty, what is your point? Why are you interacting with so many Muslim men such that you know that a majority are committing zina? Regardless, this will never justify you encouraging people to date; you are just causing corruption on the earth.

And I've met plenty, what is your point? Why are you interacting with so many Muslim men such that you know that a majority are committing zina? Regardless, this will never justify you encouraging people to date; you are just causing corruption on the earth.

I am not saying all guys are like that, but it is extremely rare to find ones that are actually trying not to do that type of stuff when getting to know someone. I'm young but definitely old enough for a serious relationship. I am talking about men between the ages of 24-30 btw.

Good to know but that is besides the point. Literally every post on here has been about this. Dating is not just about physical intimacy guys...