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Help with crush

I think I have a crush on this guy I used to go to school with in secondary. Coz I moved schools for sixth form I haven't seen him in like 2 years but since study leave I've been going to the library and I see him almost everyday there with his mates. I don't want to approach him in person at alll cos I'm too shy and scared. Also it's a bit embarrassing cos if things didn't work out it would be really awkward. I'm in year 13 now but I remember in year 10 one of my girl friends told me she heard from someone that he might have a crush on me but I sort of dismissed it cos I didn't believe it would be true. He's also quite popular boy and I'm very quiet shy loner type haha. Anyone have any advice? I was thinking to wait ti after exams cos then I won't be going to the library anymore but at the same time I don't want to loose the momentum.

Also forgot to mention that as he was getting up from his seat he sort of gave me a half smile but idk if he was being friendl??? ahh pls someone help me out!!
Original post by Anonymous
I think I have a crush on this guy I used to go to school with in secondary. Coz I moved schools for sixth form I haven't seen him in like 2 years but since study leave I've been going to the library and I see him almost everyday there with his mates. I don't want to approach him in person at alll cos I'm too shy and scared. Also it's a bit embarrassing cos if things didn't work out it would be really awkward. I'm in year 13 now but I remember in year 10 one of my girl friends told me she heard from someone that he might have a crush on me but I sort of dismissed it cos I didn't believe it would be true. He's also quite popular boy and I'm very quiet shy loner type haha. Anyone have any advice? I was thinking to wait ti after exams cos then I won't be going to the library anymore but at the same time I don't want to loose the momentum.
Also forgot to mention that as he was getting up from his seat he sort of gave me a half smile but idk if he was being friendl??? ahh pls someone help me out!!
Maybe you could start off gradually as friends first? Perhaps small hi’s and conversations about exams (e.g. what’s your next exam? How do you think you’ll do? Etc…)
I would say smile at him when you maintain eye contact - it’s a nice way to tell someone you’ve noticed him and are friendly. 😁

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