am i a lesbian

ive always liked guys growing up but as i got into college ive started liking women. and i even came out as bi to everyone except my family. bit tmi but when i tried to have sex with any guys it just would never go in like there was a wall (im still a virgin). even tho doing it by myself i could get it in, but it would usually be during lesbian porn or “something more out there”. When it comes to guys its as if i cant get turned on enough and then i just start thinking its not working so i stop cause it hurts. ive always liked men and i still get attracted to many and fantasise . So im not sure if im a lesbian that is scared of what her family would think or theres something wrong with my body.

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Anonymous #2

You are attracted to men, fantasise about men, you are not a lesbian.

Society has normalised same sex attraction to the point where watching same sex porn = liking women. Lesbian women know they are gay from when they are a kid, they have same sex feeling from a young age, crushes, etc. Just ask yourself if you had the feelings for women growing up, as you did for men, would you be on this app asking ppl if you are straight. Don’t force something that isn’t what you are naturally attracted to just to be a part of the lgbt community. In regard to the sex, there are plenty of straight women who don’t get satisfaction from penetration, that doesn’t make u gay.

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xmox

Original post by Sarah stocking

Have you been with a girl? I have a big desire to have a lesbian experience

i have yes and i enjoyed it but thats why im confused

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Anonymous #3

Original post by xmox

i have yes and i enjoyed it but thats why im confused

if your body is rejecting men and not women its probably a sign or maybe you are just naturally more comfortable with women which is why the experience was better? idk but i am the same girl haha

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Anonymous #4

Maybe you're just romantically attracted to men, but not sexually? I've heard some people experience this and it's normal

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Anonymous #5

It's ok to be bi and experience both don't deny how you feel your parents love you no matter and want you to be happy there opinion doesn't matter or effect your happiness or your journey just experience what your going through and find your happiness that's all that matters don't have any regrets