I am now married with two kids & we are reasonably happy together overall.
But, I also meet up regularly with my best friend from my schooldays who is a lesbian, & with whom I enjoy occasional lesbian sex: that, of course, makes me bisexual, & well qualified to give you all an insight into the facts about sex between 2 women. First of all, we take our time, often setting aside a whole evening. There is no erection that has to be pampered, & there is no fears about ED, premature ejaculation, & all the other stuff that is a concern during heterosexual sex. We may well take a break halfway through, ranging from having a cup of tea to watching a film! There is a fundamental difference to man/woman sex in that we take turns in pleasuring each other, instead of getting off together. This gives you the chance to recover from your orgasm & any numbness you may experience, while pleasuring your partner. Sex with another woman is so amazing because you know each other’s bodies like your own. Some women do like the sensation of being “filled” during sex, but lesbians using dildos or other penis substitutes is just a male fantasy. The clitoris is always the key to a woman’s orgasm, and using your tongue on each other is the most effective & intimate way to pleasure your partner. Yes, we know each other’s bodies well enough to bring each other to orgasm using just our fingers, but when your tongue is resting lightly against your lover’s clitoris, you can play it like a musical instrument. Because you can feel every twitch & spasm as she becomes more & more aroused, it is possible to enhance, delay, or extend her orgasm at will. Often we “edge” each other, which means that you keep your partner on the very edge of her orgasm short of letting her ***, stopping at the first sign of a contraction: the eventual orgasm after edging can be mind-blowing! Trust me when I tell you that feeling a clit dancing on the end of your tongue as a girl cums is actually more satisfying than having your own orgasm! And each of us has that wondrous experience several times during the evening, limited only by our desire & stamina. Generally though, the power & intensity of multiple orgasms do diminish, & whilst in theory we could go all night, in practise we’re pretty well exhausted after about four. There are many reasons for a girl to have sex with another person, not the least of them being the love you have for your husband or boyfriend: obviously you want to give pleasure to him & share an intimate moment. But in terms of actual physical pleasure & sexual fulfilment, lesbian sex is incomparably more enjoyable!