Obsessed idiot? Idk how to describe this situation in a title

There is this idiot at my skl who won’t leave me alone . He likes me and is always trying to talk to me. I’ve told him to leave me alone-he doesn’t . I’ve told him I don’t like him; he says I’m playing hard to get. Apparently his friends have told him that ‘he’ll get me before GCSE’ .
No he will not.
For a bit of context , he’s in the larger like 70% of our year group who all like to talk and gossip with each other and are all friends and talk to everyone . I hate talking to people and keep a small friend group of abt two people. I know and intentionally come off as rude or maybe just like frosty(?) towards the 70%(not always there are some who I’m nice too) so they don’t talk to me so I can just be left alone -I’m also the person who , if I want to talk to you I will and I will make it clear.
So I really don’t know why he keeps talking to me and it’s reallllllllllllllllyyyyyytyyyy annoying.
I have two ideas the first is like the fake give in senario where I be like. Yh I do like u ,give him my number but acctually it’s the one where u ring it and it’s like the John cena theme tune or suttin like that-but it probs won’t work cos they are American numbers and also many of those lines (sadly) don’t work anymore.

My second option is to say I already have a boyfriend who goes to another school. Would that work????

I really don’t know how to deal with this and the fact that someone so ignorant and social likes me makes me verrrrryyyy uncomfortable.

Plz hep me 😬😬😬😬😬😬

Reply 1

Kizmet

Do the first option if that doesn’t work do the second one and if neither one of them work then the next time he talks to you just say really loudly omg will you stop I don’t wanna be with which just might embarrass him enough to lave you alone

(edited 1 year ago)

Reply 2

All-users-taken

Original post by Imgonnafailaaah

Thank you although I doubt it will embarrass him but I hope so

Reply 3

Kizmet

Original post by All-users-taken

Thank you although I doubt it will embarrass him but I hope so

Just make sure it’s in a public place with lots of students like a cafeteria and your friends to back u up

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Original post by All-users-taken

There is this idiot at my skl who won’t leave me alone . He likes me and is always trying to talk to me. I’ve told him to leave me alone-he doesn’t . I’ve told him I don’t like him; he says I’m playing hard to get. Apparently his friends have told him that ‘he’ll get me before GCSE’ .
No he will not.
For a bit of context , he’s in the larger like 70% of our year group who all like to talk and gossip with each other and are all friends and talk to everyone . I hate talking to people and keep a small friend group of abt two people. I know and intentionally come off as rude or maybe just like frosty(?) towards the 70%(not always there are some who I’m nice too) so they don’t talk to me so I can just be left alone -I’m also the person who , if I want to talk to you I will and I will make it clear.
So I really don’t know why he keeps talking to me and it’s reallllllllllllllllyyyyyytyyyy annoying.
I have two ideas the first is like the fake give in senario where I be like. Yh I do like u ,give him my number but acctually it’s the one where u ring it and it’s like the John cena theme tune or suttin like that-but it probs won’t work cos they are American numbers and also many of those lines (sadly) don’t work anymore.
My second option is to say I already have a boyfriend who goes to another school. Would that work????
I really don’t know how to deal with this and the fact that someone so ignorant and social likes me makes me verrrrryyyy uncomfortable.
Plz hep me 😬😬😬😬😬😬

If it becomes distressing then personally I would let one of teachers know. If he is that obsessed then dont want him doing anything stupid (which some boys can be if he's not nice person underneath) . You could tell him straight he is upsetting you. THEN if he continues def tell head teacher etc. The guy will be a total jerk if he continues.