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How do I start seeing myself as an attractive person?

I'm 21, never had a girlfriend, tall (6'2) and fit (i like taking care of my body). Unluckily for me, i'm balding pretty bad (i'm taking meds for it, they're not working that much). At least i know i've got the ideal skull shape for it (i've already shaved my head).

I'd prefer to keep this as superficial as possible, cause i don't see myself as an attractive dude physically. I know i can engage a good conversation and be friendly cause i've got many friends (both guys and girls).

Please help me! What's worked for you?

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by Anonymous
I'm 21, never had a girlfriend, tall (6'2) and fit (i like taking care of my body). Unluckily for me, i'm balding pretty bad (i'm taking meds for it, they're not working that much). At least i know i've got the ideal skull shape for it (i've already shaved my head).
I'd prefer to keep this as superficial as possible, cause i don't see myself as an attractive dude physically. I know i can engage a good conversation and be friendly cause i've got many friends (both guys and girls).
Please help me! What's worked for you?

Consider the following:
https://brightside.me/articles/top-10-sexiest-bald-men-of-2022-according-to-study-prince-william-has-been-dethroned-809952/
https://wmgk.com/galleries/15-sexiest-bald-men/

If you have a decent physique (doesn't mean oversized muscles or a gym addict) and good dress sense (doesn't mean expensive and flashy clothes), you usually should be fine for a particular type of audience.
Most of it is down to confidence and authenticity.

Reply 2

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by Anonymous
Consider the following:
https://brightside.me/articles/top-10-sexiest-bald-men-of-2022-according-to-study-prince-william-has-been-dethroned-809952/
https://wmgk.com/galleries/15-sexiest-bald-men/

If you have a decent physique (doesn't mean oversized muscles or a gym addict) and good dress sense (doesn't mean expensive and flashy clothes), you usually should be fine for a particular type of audience.
Most of it is down to confidence and authenticity.


as much as i appreciate this list, they’re all men in their 50s. And not just average men even… they’re stars.

Now, losing hair is a problem even at 30. Imagine at 20. The men on that list don’t need hair at all, cause they’re already famous and rich.

Reply 3

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by Anonymous
as much as i appreciate this list, they’re all men in their 50s. And not just average men even… they’re stars.
Now, losing hair is a problem even at 30. Imagine at 20. The men on that list don’t need hair at all, cause they’re already famous and rich.

Yeesh.

See:
https://www.pinterest.co.uk/dancotlar/young-bald/

https://skullshaver.eu/blogs/news/do-women-find-bald-men-attractive
https://skalp.com/why-women-find-bald-men-attractive/
https://www.mantl.co/blogs/spirit/how-to-embrace-being-bald-in-your-20s-with-style
https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/news-life/why-women-find-bald-men-more-attractive/news-story/c6c419ecd606e6b6010468c107150fcd

Reply 4

What worked for me was when I decided, one freezing cold night, that I should start taking myself and my life a lot less seriously than I had done up till then.

After that I took everything negative or potentially negative less seriously.
As well as getting more joy, laughter, satisfaction from the good things.

This one change turned me from a virgin with over 100 rejections to me getting a girlfriend within 2 weeks.

This change would work really well for you.
You need more self-confidence. The anser how to get it is somehwere in the wide net of TSR.

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