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21 Never dated

I'm 21 Male, never been on a date, never kissed a girl. I'm not even religious and I do go clubbing and I socialise well. I have tried approaching so many girls either at a club or just by befriending them, but they have all turned me down. One even said " I was too nice". I have kinda given up, but I just don't want it to be a problem for me down the line if I don't have any experience whatsoever.

Reply 1

heyyy, (20 female)
ive never dated either and i have the same fear as well. lemme get ur snap and we take it from there.

Reply 2

Original post by Anonymous
I'm 21 Male, never been on a date, never kissed a girl. I'm not even religious and I do go clubbing and I socialise well. I have tried approaching so many girls either at a club or just by befriending them, but they have all turned me down. One even said " I was too nice". I have kinda given up, but I just don't want it to be a problem for me down the line if I don't have any experience whatsoever.
Focus on yourself and your future bro.

Reply 3

Original post by Anonymous
I'm 21 Male, never been on a date, never kissed a girl. I'm not even religious and I do go clubbing and I socialise well. I have tried approaching so many girls either at a club or just by befriending them, but they have all turned me down. One even said " I was too nice". I have kinda given up, but I just don't want it to be a problem for me down the line if I don't have any experience whatsoever.


If, as you say, you have a decent social life, lack of sex and relationship experience is unlikely to present an issue in the future as you'll still be seen as a normal, sociable guy who can maintain friendships.

Reply 4

You're not attractive, girls have lots of handsome guys to choose from so why should they be interested in you? You're not entitled to sex

Reply 5

Original post by Rr600
You're not attractive, girls have lots of handsome guys to choose from so why should they be interested in you? You're not entitled to sex


how is he giving off the impression that he’s entitled to sex???

Reply 6

Original post by Anonymous
I'm 21 Male, never been on a date, never kissed a girl. I'm not even religious and I do go clubbing and I socialise well. I have tried approaching so many girls either at a club or just by befriending them, but they have all turned me down. One even said " I was too nice". I have kinda given up, but I just don't want it to be a problem for me down the line if I don't have any experience whatsoever.

Hi my name is Adam I am 18, I am looking for a girlfriend in Bradford West Yorkshire. I have been looking but I can’t find anyone. I don’t care about looks but I just want someone to love me for who I am and how I look.

Reply 7

Original post by Sheikhadamsadiq
Hi my name is Adam I am 18, I am looking for a girlfriend in Bradford West Yorkshire. I have been looking but I can’t find anyone. I don’t care about looks but I just want someone to love me for who I am and how I look.


maybe make a separate post

Reply 8

Original post by Anonymous
maybe make a separate post


I tried but they took it down I don’t know why

Reply 9

Original post by Sheikhadamsadiq
I tried but they took it down I don’t know why


Iknow
it’s because it’s not an app to be looking to date😭

Reply 10

Original post by Anonymous
Iknow
it’s because it’s not an app to be looking to date😭


Allow it 😭

Reply 11

you know ur situation is BAD when you resort to tsr for dating advice 💀
(edited 12 months ago)

Reply 12

Original post by War_criminal
you know ur situation is BAD when you resort to tsr for dating advice 💀


they just would like other opinions relaxxx

Reply 13

lots of men end up a decade older than this or more

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