Give me your thoughts.

I was groomed by my counselar and just wanted to know if that was a flex.

Please explain "groomed" in what way exactly,

My counselar was flirting with me then wanted to sleep with me.

Hmm, that leads to two more questions to pin things down (1) Please describe "flirting" , i.e. how did he flirt ?. (2) Did he point out say "I would love to sleep with you" ?.

She would give me gifts like 4 times which your not allowed to do, always told me that I was her favorite, she bought me a chain, would get irritated if I talked about other girls, would always want to touch my hand, talked to her friends about me, checked me out, gave me a pet name, there's other stuff but these are just a few of them. When she went to my house I told her that I was going to get something from my room and she followed me and said "your not gonna give me a tour" and went inside my room without me saying anything.

and what about the sleeping with you part ?. How did that go , what was said ?

It was supposed to be our last session and I told her I couldn't go to the office and she said that she will go to my house instead. When she went to my house I told her I was going to get something from my room and that I'll be back she followed me to my room and said "your not gonna give me a tour?" And just walked in my room. I made a reddit post about this and everyone was saying that she wanted to sleep with me and was grooming me.

I was groomed by my counselar and just wanted to know if that was a flex.

It was supposed to be our last session and I told her I couldn't go to the office and she said that she will go to my house instead. When she went to my house I told her I was going to get something from my room and that I'll be back she followed me to my room and said "your not gonna give me a tour?" And just walked in my room. I made a reddit post about this and everyone was saying that she wanted to sleep with me and was grooming me.