Virginity, how many times did it take?

How many times did it take for the guy entering to break your seal?* Did you have to stop and retry due to pain?* Did he have to apply a lot of pressure?* Was he gentle or did he just do one big thrust to get it over with or did he go in and out deeper each time?* (Also especially once he got close to cumming was he a gentleman and didn't start slamming for his own orgasm?)* How many girls orgasmed their first time (either they just are ones who can through penetration or partner stimulated then was a gentleman and wanted to please you and allow you to ha have an orgasm as well and not be selfish/done after he finished)?* Does it stay just as painful as the beginning of penetration as he is thrusting?* Lastly how long did you bleed afterwards and how long until fully healed afterwards does sex not hurt anymore?- Sincerely, anxiously nervous about first time girl with vaginismus.🥺 (Please no hate or harshness my mom won't allow me to ask my doctor questions and she won't answer them either, she only told me I get my period each month and PIV creates baby nine months then labor baby born.* No details about cramps, able to use tampons instead of pads, virginity hurting, guys have to thrust during intercourse, or that orgasms existed.)