rant but feel free to advise please

so my bsf little brother is a couple months younger than me, we are all very close and spend a lot of time together as they live on a farm and we’re always doing something, i basically live at her house, last week she was on holiday for a week so i stayed at her house to do all the things during the day that she usually does, whenever she goes to sleep really early and we’d still be doing stuff outside, to let her go to sleep she’d say for me to stay with him till i go to bed, and after a couple times we started just cuddling in his bed watching tv when we’d do that, but i always just thought of it as normal cos he is a really touchy person, and that she woukd understand, but a couple weeks ago he kissed me one of the times, and then like 2 more times when i’d been there, and then i wasn’t in his bed again until this week when she was away, and we did more than kiss, (for reference, my rice purity score before this was 93 and it was basically just all the ones about drinking, and a few about police being called and stuff, nothing about anything with a boy, as he was my first kiss, and now it’s 69 my score) and idk what to do about it because i do like him but at the same time he’s my bsf brother, and i could never tell my bsf because people already joke about how me n him are very close and they think we’re dating, and a girl once stopped talking to him because im always at their house, and my bsf always says when ppm say that straight away “no they aren’t” and like goes in a huff almost? so ik she wouldn’t approve so idk what to do

Reply 1

Forlornsoul

dating your best friend's brother could get messy
if things didn't work out it may affect your friendship
not necessarily wrong though
bsf brother won't admit you're dating because you're not yet - but it does seem like you're into each other
do you feel it's more of a crush or a deeper connection? if you're not sure, don't give it to him on a plate!

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Original post by Forlornsoul

i can’t tell, and ik it could get messy that’s why i wouldn’t tell her, because i am so close with her whole family and wouldn’t want to mess anything up, and obvs we aren’t dating yet and that’s why when asked we all deny it but it gets my bsf angry when ppl ask which is why i wouldn’t mention this to her

Reply 3

Surnia

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How 'little' is this little brother age-wise, and what about you? Are you both under or over 16?

Reply 4

Glemon

I think that if you really like him then go for it but if it's just a fling then it's too big of a risk.

Reply 5

Surnia

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Original post by Anonymous

i just turned 17 and he turns 16 next month

Might have got more to worry about than your best friend here. If you've been doing sexual stuff with a 15yo stop it NOW! You may have committed a criminal act.