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Never see my boyfriend after his graduate scheme

My boyfriend started his graduate scheme at a top investment bank last year and I never see him anymore. He often plans date nights but asks to reschedule on the day due to work. We live close to each other but will go a fortnight plus of not seeing each other due to his work. Is this normal? Or is he just losing interest in me?
Original post by Anonymous
My boyfriend started his graduate scheme at a top investment bank last year and I never see him anymore. He often plans date nights but asks to reschedule on the day due to work. We live close to each other but will go a fortnight plus of not seeing each other due to his work. Is this normal? Or is he just losing interest in me?

Avoiding the chance to look forward to meeting you again is one sign that he may lost interest in you. However, since he seems busy with work, it makes sense that he has lots of things to do - but don’t you think he would still find time to meet you if he really misses you a lot?
A fortnight isn’t a lot so don’t be so alarmed yet - I would say if this continues over a longer period of time (e.g. 1-2 months) I’d say he may of lost interest or just intensely busy.

I hope things work out for you!
I think it's fairly normal for an IB grad scheme to be quite demanding.

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