i love him but

i love my bf so much but my bestie says hes not right for me and he doesnt care. hes a really sweet person but just because hes apparantly sexist and listens to songs that are racist and swear everyone thinks hes like that when i know hes not. i have no clue what to do as i dont wanna lose my bestie or my bf but i cant keep seeing both of them

If you know he's not what everyone thinks he is, then everyone else, including your friend don't matter when it comes to their opinion of him. It's important to remove your attraction from him and judge him clearly too.

but my bestie and bf are forcing me to choose one of them and idk what to do any advice

That's inconsiderate and selfish of them. They don't seem great. I'd choose neither if I had other options. You could meet up as a three and get themselves to accept each other if possible.

thats my problem they cant be in the same room without arguing but i love my bf too much and would hate to lose my bestie yk??

i love my bf so much but my bestie says hes not right for me and he doesnt care. hes a really sweet person but just because hes apparantly sexist and listens to songs that are racist and swear everyone thinks hes like that when i know hes not. i have no clue what to do as i dont wanna lose my bestie or my bf but i cant keep seeing both of them

Why do you love your boyfriend when you think he might be using you, as he refuses to talk about his feelings and only wants sex?

i love my bf so much but my bestie says hes not right for me and he doesnt care. hes a really sweet person but just because hes apparantly sexist and listens to songs that are racist and swear everyone thinks hes like that when i know hes not. i have no clue what to do as i dont wanna lose my bestie or my bf but i cant keep seeing both of them

Speak to him let him know ur not ok wid some stuff if he still acts up after that then u gotta look at ur options icl

im scared to bring it up with him. like i have no idea where to start. what do u recommend

can u do it on email as i dont give my snap out x

pls enlighten me on how to voice note on email 💀🤝but it’s fine I understand. just don’t start an argument with ur bf accusing cah that’s how the relationship starts gettin destroyed.

what should i do then x

i litro jus gave u advice 😪 , but icl ur situations a bit tekky. but ibr if ur too scared to bring up some things with ur bf think about it , is that guy rlly the guy u wanna be with you if your not comfortable with sharin certain things wid him

ty for ur advice x

ty for ur advice x

bro did not take the advice 😪

how did u get that star on ur profile? It’s my first usin this app so idk how it works icl

what star?