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So im in a friend group and everyone chats sh*t abt eachother exept me because why would you do that to your own friends? anyway one of the girls who is supposed to be my best friend spread rumours abt me around school(she doesent know i know that she did it ) she also liked the boy i was talking to so she went to him and made up bad things abt me so now he blockd me ,she also continously starts arguments all the time with everyone and normally id just say sorry even tho its not my fault but se made me so angry to the poimt i just wanted to slap her in the face so i stood up for myself and she didnt like that because she likes to control what i do ,
so now shes calling me all these horrible names and stuff and talking behind my back to all my friends.
What do i do?

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Original post by inflated-chemist

So im in a friend group and everyone chats sh*t abt eachother exept me because why would you do that to your own friends? anyway one of the girls who is supposed to be my best friend spread rumours abt me around school(she doesent know i know that she did it ) she also liked the boy i was talking to so she went to him and made up bad things abt me so now he blockd me ,she also continously starts arguments all the time with everyone and normally id just say sorry even tho its not my fault but se made me so angry to the poimt i just wanted to slap her in the face so i stood up for myself and she didnt like that because she likes to control what i do ,
so now shes calling me all these horrible names and stuff and talking behind my back to all my friends.
What do i do?

Start slowly distancing yourself from her and find a good solid friendship group. there's no point no wasting your time with someone like that just hoping they get better.

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Drama-Queen.

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You need to get that "friend" out of your life! I know it can be tough losing a friend but this isn't a friend. She sounds a toxic person who you don't need in your life, especially if she's spreading lies ruining your potential love life.

I've been in a similar position where in a friend group a few of the girls became like that and the best thing I did was dump them regardless of the awkwardness at the start due to the mutual connection with the friend group. I think you'll thank yourself later

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JDINCINERATOR

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Get rid of these friends, find an environment of supportive people who care about you, and don't tolerate people who continually sass talk each other. I know it might seem like joking around, but this behaviour probably masks significant insecurities. Look out for what you want and how you want to be treated, and if the people around you aren't respecting you, they're a waste of your time.

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