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My gf’s parents don’t like the idea of her nit marrying or being with someone who’s not Pakistani or Muslim and I’m neither and she wants to tell them but hasn’t what do I do

Reply 1

Bro she should listen to her family. A Muslim can only marry a Muslim. Doesn’t matter about where you were born but only a Muslim. Since you’re not a Muslim it is not allowed in Islam.

Reply 2

Original post by Ahmed04_
Bro she should listen to her family. A Muslim can only marry a Muslim. Doesn’t matter about where you were born but only a Muslim. Since you’re not a Muslim it is not allowed in Islam.


They wouldn’t accept a revert tho

Reply 3

imma be real she knows she not gonna end up marrying you this a short term just for the fun of it thing until her parents find her an actual muslim or pakistani guy

Reply 4

Original post by Anonymous
imma be real she knows she not gonna end up marrying you this a short term just for the fun of it thing until her parents find her an actual muslim or pakistani guy


Nah she actually does wanna be with me

Reply 5

Original post by Anonymous
Nah she actually does wanna be with me


yeah yeah thats what we always say and think but when the time comes to it we know that its actually not gonna happen because our parents would just never allow it and we wouldnt cut them off for u even if we say we would

Reply 6

This is the problem with dating. In Islam it is forbidden. You are not allowed to see others as bf and gf no free mingling. It leads to bad things and loss of respect. Maybe this is a way of punishment for your ‘gf’ for making you as a boyfriend. Inshallah she realizes and asks for forgiveness from allah.

Reply 7

Original post by Ahmed04_
This is the problem with dating. In Islam it is forbidden. You are not allowed to see others as bf and gf no free mingling. It leads to bad things and loss of respect. Maybe this is a way of punishment for your ‘gf’ for making you as a boyfriend. Inshallah she realizes and asks for forgiveness from allah.


Do u realise how many Muslims date and do haram things these days yet ur saying she needs to ask for forgiveness

Reply 8

Yes everyone sins including my self. But the best is those who sin and ask for forgiveness.

Reply 9

Original post by Ahmed04_
Yes everyone sins including my self. But the best is those who sin and ask for forgiveness.


Think it’s pretty rediculous u saying she needs to ask for allahs forgiveness but ok

Reply 10

Original post by Anonymous
yeah yeah thats what we always say and think but when the time comes to it we know that its actually not gonna happen because our parents would just never allow it and we wouldnt cut them off for u even if we say we would


Clearly u gave experience

Reply 11

Brother since you are non Muslim that’s why you don’t understand what we are saying and it stings you. Your ‘gf’ knows what I mean. Her family who are Muslims know too. May Allah guide you both.

Reply 12

Original post by Anonymous
imma be real she knows she not gonna end up marrying you this a short term just for the fun of it thing until her parents find her an actual muslim or pakistani guy


She told her parents lmao

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