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depressed? or just life?

okay, so, quick one

is it just me, or are your teenage years most definitely *not* the best few years of your life, like so many older gens often say??

im not sure if im alone on this, but as a british girl who's halfway through her teenage years, these last few years of my life have suckeddd. please let me know if im not alone on this, and please do share what period of time in your life was the best for you.

because, let's be honest, if *these* are meant to be the best, im cooked.
Teenage years are often a bit rubbish. I don't know anyone who would choose to repeat those years. Your body is full of hormones, your head is full of this and that, and your heart aches for love and recognition. Our brains are not fully formed until we are in our twenties. Life really does get better. Twenties and thirties are fab. If I could pick one age to be forever I'd pick thirty. Look forward to what's to come!


SB (parent of a teenager)
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Original post by Anonymous
okay, so, quick one
is it just me, or are your teenage years most definitely *not* the best few years of your life, like so many older gens often say??
im not sure if im alone on this, but as a british girl who's halfway through her teenage years, these last few years of my life have suckeddd. please let me know if im not alone on this, and please do share what period of time in your life was the best for you.
because, let's be honest, if *these* are meant to be the best, im cooked.

You're definitely not alone in feeling this way. Many people find their teenage years challenging, and the idea that these years are supposed to be the "best years of your life" can put a lot of pressure on you to feel a certain way. The truth is, everyone's experience is different, and it's perfectly normal for the teenage years to be tough.
For me, the best period of my life wasn't my teenage years either. I went through a lot of confusion, self-doubt, and stress during that time. It felt like I was constantly trying to figure out who I was and where I fit in, which was exhausting and often disheartening.
It wasn't until my mid-20s that things started to feel better. I had more freedom to make my own choices, a better understanding of who I was, and I had built stronger, more genuine friendships. I also found a career path that I was passionate about, which gave me a sense of purpose and fulfillment.
So, if you're feeling like your teenage years are far from the best, don't worry. Many people feel the same way, and there's so much more life ahead of you with countless opportunities for happiness and fulfillment. The idea that any one period of life should be the best is a myth—different stages bring different joys and challenges.
Hang in there, and remember that it's okay to feel how you feel. The best years of your life might be just around the corner.
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Original post by Anonymous
okay, so, quick one
is it just me, or are your teenage years most definitely *not* the best few years of your life, like so many older gens often say??
im not sure if im alone on this, but as a british girl who's halfway through her teenage years, these last few years of my life have suckeddd. please let me know if im not alone on this, and please do share what period of time in your life was the best for you.
because, let's be honest, if *these* are meant to be the best, im cooked.


I would recommend speaking to your GP.

Take time out for yourself, look after yourself first.

There is a lot of support out there such as:

-The Samaritans, you can call 116 123, which is available 24 hours a day

-Mind, 0300 123 3393

-Saneline, 0300 304 7000, from 4.30pm-10.30pm

-The mix, 0800 808 4994, 11am-11pm

-SHOUT, text 852258, 24 hour text service

-Crises, 741741, text service

-Papyrus, 0800 068 4141, if you have thoughts of suicide or in emotional distress

-Rethink mental health, 0300 5000 927

-No Panic, 0800 138 8889

-Relate, they have a chat advisor

-Mental Health 24/7: 0800 008 6516

-hubofhope website, useful contact information for your local area

You can self refer yourself to talking therapies on the NHS website.

There is the mind forum

Also Facebook groups

You can join support groups

You can contact a crises team if things get very bad

Plenty of resources online, information regarding well being.

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