This girl confuses me

girl: Ella
Friend: Jayla
Ella bf

2021- . i would see her glancing back at me when getting something but from what i remember it was 2 times. 1 time my class played jeopadry, we were in same team. She was next to me but also across where board was at. i stared at board and then her friendasks her why her face is so red but she said “i don’t know prob cuz it’s hot”. I never thought much about it. also hoenslty somewhere after all this she once called me and my aquitance annoying .

In 2022 we had other class. She ended up sitting next to me with her friend Jayla. After that day she didn’t sit next to me. Later she ended up having tosit next to the teacher and i had to sit many seats behind ella . one day i notice with perpherial vision that she’slooking at me when i was turning a assignment to theteacher. After this day teacher told someone to stop drawing and ella turns around and she looks at me and turns around more with this smile 😃 .i just glanced at her and she just turned backaround then she turned back again with confused look.

Few days later, people get tochoose partners if they want. Ella chose to work withJayla & Jaylas seat was behind me so ella had to sitbehind me. I walked up to teacher for help & walked back to my seat and saw ella staring at me but with her head down.I just kept looking at the teacher but then ella was out of her seat and talking to Jayla and she was viewable in my corner of my eye a bit but i continued looking at teacher & not at her but for some reason Ella was talking to her friend, randomly froze/ stop speaking and seemed like she was slowly looking at me?.

I stopped staring at the teacher after this but later everywhere she walked in class She would keep lookingback at me and she ended up being next to the doorcuz she was getting something from bookshelf butshe was facing forward and when i saw the door opening I decided to look at door but she thought i was staringat her so she froze and kept staring back at me & i just gave angry look. She was making me uncomfortable also she just started dancing for no reason later.

at lunch she went to my spot with her bf and just stood their with him infront of me then he walked away and she just lingered around. i think the next day i heard a girl with asimilar voice like her but i didn’t know for sure if it was her but i heard someone say “aww he is sad Cry cry cry”. also her bf hated me a lot for some reason ever since the first day of school

At lunch once i legit looked behind me and she wasthere without me even knowing and she randomly walked away & her bf asked her what’s wrong. Then her friends went tomy table telling me “hi” I think they were tryna get me to go away? I was loosing my mind I couldn’t look anywherecuz if she ended up being there then she’ll think i’mchecking her out. One time i was spacing off and lookingsomewhere when walking and she ended up walkingright past where i was looking and giving a awkward face too

I always keeped my distance away from her. In a class that her bf and me shared, her bf screamed across theclass “oh look ella!” and i ignored but her bf said “you ain’t gonna look?” out loud. Funny enough a couple months after this she got cheated on by him.Jayla would sometimes tell ella to seat at a certain place. One time she asked her if she wanted to sit somewhere else and she said no then later she sat behind me. She’s incredibly weird. The class once said “doesn’t this guy have a crush on her?” I just ignored obv, another time her and her friends were legit right infront of me and their was some kid constantly moving between our direction so i looked at the kid but they assumed i was staring at them so they said”let’s move over their”.

12th year she legit looked down quickly when i was infront of her for a sec when walking and another time i was in the halls waiting for class to open and she was already in the hallway and stopped talking to a. friend of hers and a friend asked what’s wrong. In my perphieal vision i saw her quickly stare at me then back to her friend

Reply 1

Surnia

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Nothing confusing going on; you are all acting like teenagers. It's not that deep.

Reply 2

flamingolover

Yeah i dont think there's anything in this. The fact that you remembered the amount of times she looked at you like 3 years ago is a bit intense but yeah this is jsut standard teenage stuff, id try not to think about it too much

Reply 3

mm_966

Original post by flamingolover

i agree thats kinda creepy

Reply 4

flamingolover

Original post by mm_966

i agree thats kinda creepy

yeah and like people look at people in class especially when they are talking and moving around like it is weird how much hes thought about it. And he said that he didnt think too much about it but i couldn't tell you how many times a person looked at me today let alone 3years ago so hes definitely been thinking about it

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Original post by mm_966

i agree thats kinda creepy

I can’t choose to forget things it’s just my brain that happens to remmeber it

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

Original post by flamingolover

i mean she was making it a big deal so that’s why i still remember a lot also some of this happened a year ago and some a few months ago. I can’t choose what my brain can remmeber or forget

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

i mean she was making it a big deal so that’s why i still remember a lot also some of this happened a year ago and some a few months ago. I can’t choose what my brain can remmeber or forget

also i think her and her bf were bullying me in a way and i can’t stop thinking of people who bully me so i needed to let this out like some sort of vent. Her bf has been picking on me before this situation even happened too

Reply 8

flamingolover

Original post by Anonymous

i mean she was making it a big deal so that’s why i still remember a lot also some of this happened a year ago and some a few months ago. I can’t choose what my brain can remmeber or forget

From what you've said it doesnt seem like she was making a big deal out of it. Id honestly try to not worry to much

Reply 9

mm_966

ur imagination can manipulate your thoughts to make things appear important to you
a lot of the stuff you saw from ur peripheral vision, so you dont necessarily know for sure
not saying u can forget but it is possible to change your aspect on it
dont let ur assumptions change reality; dont make it a big deal
im sorry if u think they were bullying you
but they dont seem to be doing it anymore
if anything, you wont be seeing her soon anymore