Can a guy and a girl just be friends?!

Anonymous #1

Without one of them catching feelings or the guy wanting to **** the girl?!

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yes absolutely lol

Original post by Olaaa_

yes absolutely lol

Really ok

Yea.

Original post by StriderHort

Yea.

Okok

Reply 5

Old Skool Freak

Original post by Anonymous

Without one of them catching feelings or the guy wanting to **** the girl?!

Lol, this subject has been done to death on here... However, cause I'm nice, I'll link you to the last time this was discussed so you can read peoples opinions

https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=740008

No.

Original post by jay2013

No.

Why no?!

Reply 8

JDINCINERATOR

Original post by Anonymous

Without one of them catching feelings or the guy wanting to **** the girl?!

Sometimes it's hard to resist throbbing biological urges, but if you respect each other's wishes for the friendship, then of course it doesn't have to be a friendship involving you know what.

Reply 9

Zarek

Have you never seen When Harry met Sally

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

Original post by Zarek

Have you never seen When Harry met Sally

Nah..

Reply 11

Zarek

Original post by Anonymous

Nah..

Watch it and you will know the answer to this question. Not a bad film either

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

Original post by Zarek

Watch it and you will know the answer to this question. Not a bad film either

Hmm ok

Reply 13

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

Why no?!

Jay2013 is simply a Troll or Agitator. He simply says the opposite to what is normal, to get attention. Ignore him.

Reply 14

Shane Flanagan

Original post by Anonymous

Without one of them catching feelings or the guy wanting to **** the girl?!

Yes they can. Its a pretty small minded thing to think they cant. I had a flatmate in first year who was my friend, and whilst I found her attractive, I saw her simply as a friend of mine. There's nothing wrong with it.

Reply 15

Anonymous #3

Yes 100%. I've got girl friends and many of them I have had since early childhood. Never caught feelings for them.
That's not to say it doesn't happen in some cases, but friendship doesn't really have a gender limitation.

Reply 16

jay2013

Original post by Anonymous

Why no?!

Because they just can't.

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

Original post by jay2013

Because they just can't.

Haha ok!

Reply 18

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

Without one of them catching feelings or the guy wanting to **** the girl?!

I think they can yes. If you look up "WebMD "ASexual" you might see something along those lines. Romantic attachment but NOT sexual.

Reply 19

Serisnar

Honestly? Just friends? Nah, often the times the guy wanted to have at least sexual relations to me. Even If its casual when those guys stated dating our friendship died a bit down because their girlfriends didnt want me around much (they werent mean about It, they just didnt want a friend hw was clearly attracted around, which I respected); or they themselves refused to present me to their girlfriends - showing that they didnt saw me as totally platonic material. Most of those times was a surprised to me, as I feel I wasnt really the type of those guys.

I think its really hard, unless the guy is gay or you are a close knit group and he is dating and you are really close to his girlfriend/wife. I dont mean men and women cant be in friendly terms. But being genuinely friends (hanging together one and one, sharing deep secrets, etc) is harder, even If theres no interest from a side.