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falling for soemone online

.is this possible.
(edited 10 months ago)

Reply 1

It is possible, but I would say be careful who your trust

Reply 2

definitely agree with being careful who u trust^ and make sure u know they'r real lmao, otherwise i'd say it's fairly common

Reply 3

Original post by RosieChow
.is this possible.

Yes it is Possible but be careful bc people can fake there age
and make sure you meet them in person to
Just some advice

Reply 4

Yes definitely possible, I fell for one of my best friends (still like him, just haven’t got the nerve to tell him) we’ve never met in person but know each other from a school chat platform. If it is a secure situation (meaning not a random chat website, you know everyone is who they say they are) then that’s fine, would definitely pursue it :smile:

Reply 5

Just find out who they really are? Online can be a screen or barrier hiding details they don’t want to share . And even if they are genuine face to face is so important. You may see what you want to see online not the real deal.

Reply 6

Original post by ivanita12
Yes it is Possible but be careful bc people can fake there age
and make sure you meet them in person to
Just some advice

I have had more issues. He's upset with me.

Reply 7

Original post by RosieChow
I have had more issues. He's upset with me.

I would be very careful about meeting him in person until you know much more about him.

Reply 8

He lives near my place and I have seen him around. He seems ok. We were meant to go on a date but I had a burn out at work. I didnt message for a week, and hes cut me off. do i just let it go?

Reply 9

Original post by Anonymous
He lives near my place and I have seen him around. He seems ok. We were meant to go on a date but I had a burn out at work. I didnt message for a week, and hes cut me off. do i just let it go?

Personally, I would just tell me that you have had problems with burn out, and that you would like to maybe reconnect with him once you feel better in weeks/month or whatever time you think. If he is a "nice" guy then he will fuilly understand and will reply in good terms, If on other hand he is NOT a "nice" guy he will either not reply or will rebuff you.

Reply 10

CORRECTION "Tell him" sorry brain is not workign meant to say tell "HIM"

Reply 11

My friend said if I were him its over, there wont be chances. and he said just put it to experience and move on. I think he does not understand love.

Reply 12

Original post by RosieChow
.is this possible.

It depends what’s okay. If your around a teenage age and you find someone on insta or tiktock it should be fine because you can find out their school, their friends their family and everything.

Reply 13

Original post by Anonymous
It depends what’s okay. If your around a teenage age and you find someone on insta or tiktock it should be fine because you can find out their school, their friends their family and everything.

No its got nothing to do with age or social media. I liked his profile and how he communicated. I liked how he came across in messages. I didnt message for a week and its ended. Well life moves on. I was really sick that week. I tried re matched and just cant! I had to pay for a sub to send me a message without matching but thats like stalking, and I dont know if that might just freak him out. I have to move on either way.

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