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i have had a male friend for many years: the son of my mums male best friend. my friend recently got a girlfriend, and she was angry that my instagram had photos with him on it. to keep things calm, i took down any photos with just him in. however, she’s now asking that i take down any photos containing him, including any group photos. i really down want to, and i kinda want to block his girlfriend. am i being unreasonable, or should i take them down? any advice is really welcome x

Reply 1

NeoIan

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Original post by Anonymous

i have had a male friend for many years: the son of my mums male best friend. my friend recently got a girlfriend, and she was angry that my instagram had photos with him on it. to keep things calm, i took down any photos with just him in. however, she’s now asking that i take down any photos containing him, including any group photos. i really down want to, and i kinda want to block his girlfriend. am i being unreasonable, or should i take them down? any advice is really welcome x

Just ignore her she’s insecure and you are a friend of his. He needs to consider if she’s a nice person to see to be honest . Take it as a compliment because she must think your pretty if she’s worried 🙂

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Wired_1800

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Original post by Anonymous

i have had a male friend for many years: the son of my mums male best friend. my friend recently got a girlfriend, and she was angry that my instagram had photos with him on it. to keep things calm, i took down any photos with just him in. however, she’s now asking that i take down any photos containing him, including any group photos. i really down want to, and i kinda want to block his girlfriend. am i being unreasonable, or should i take them down? any advice is really welcome x

Block her. Life’s simple.

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NeoIan

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even better get a cosy picture with him now, and pop it on your feed - be a bit sassy with it - it will be good for her to see your not a push over :smile:

. And get her thinking, i guess you dont know her in person ?.

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Anonymous #1

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Original post by NeoIan

even better get a cosy picture with him now, and pop it on your feed - be a bit sassy with it - it will be good for her to see your not a push over :smile:

. And get her thinking, i guess you dont know her in person ?.

yeah, i’ve never met her before. she’s always backed out the day of lmao i genuinely only see him as a friend, but she doesn’t seem to care

Reply 5

StriderHort

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If I found out someone I'd recently started seeing was taking it upon themselves to contact my friends in such a way i would end things immediately. That relationship is going to be horrendous.

Reply 6

NeoIan

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Original post by Anonymous

yeah, i’ve never met her before. she’s always backed out the day of lmao i genuinely only see him as a friend, but she doesn’t seem to care

hehe - sounds like a nightmare girl - 🙂 ignore her and enjoy your freindship with him

Reply 7

toftegard

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Original post by Anonymous

i have had a male friend for many years: the son of my mums male best friend. my friend recently got a girlfriend, and she was angry that my instagram had photos with him on it. to keep things calm, i took down any photos with just him in. however, she’s now asking that i take down any photos containing him, including any group photos. i really down want to, and i kinda want to block his girlfriend. am i being unreasonable, or should i take them down? any advice is really welcome x

i understand her not wanting photos of the just the two of you up (to a certain extent) but anything more than that especially when they’ve just got together is absurd and i would say to just ignore it and block her x

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