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What is so monumental about a graduation ceremony?

This isn't really a question. Just a thought piece.

Why are people so excited to graduate. I mean it's really great that you have a qualification and everything but the ultimate goal is a good paying job now to reflect the investments you've put in through all the loans (which will only get bigger the more you leave it, interest is the worst). I'm graduating this year and have been accepted in to a masters which will lead directly in to a career. I'm not giving too much away or what type of industry I'm associated with but it's a field that always needs people and never is not hiring. Anyways, I digress.

I never wanted to attend my graduation ceremony. I've achieved great grades, I'm graduating with a First Class which wasn't a surprise at all, I always knew I had it coming. The whole time I was at university, studying this particular degree, I've never felt intellectually stimulated. I would look around and see majority of my peers struggling, complaining or simply not caring at all. I knew this really wasn't the place for me, so why did I stay? Maybe because of the security it gave me, knowing I'm doing something. Thankfully, it's actually paid off by getting in to the particular masters I'm due to be starting which is very competitive.

My mother insisted on attending the ceremony but I cannot think of something which is more unfulfilling. The whole time I was at university I felt invisible, yet my academic skills were nothing but. Surely in an institution like a university that's something that should be celebrated. I'm wearing this ridiculous gown, that I've had to rent for a ridiculous price, to get a maximum of 10 seconds of attention by walking across a stage? The university says they're 'celebrating' with us but I think it's comedic. What do you really know about me? Apart from the fact that I'm just another statistic to improve the optics of your university and course.

Sorry, not even going to read what I wrote, having a poopy few days and I'm on a social media detox so can't numb myself. Most likely didn't make sense. Hope it passes quickly

Reply 1

Original post
by Anonymous
This isn't really a question. Just a thought piece.
Why are people so excited to graduate. I mean it's really great that you have a qualification and everything but the ultimate goal is a good paying job now to reflect the investments you've put in through all the loans (which will only get bigger the more you leave it, interest is the worst). I'm graduating this year and have been accepted in to a masters which will lead directly in to a career. I'm not giving too much away or what type of industry I'm associated with but it's a field that always needs people and never is not hiring. Anyways, I digress.
I never wanted to attend my graduation ceremony. I've achieved great grades, I'm graduating with a First Class which wasn't a surprise at all, I always knew I had it coming. The whole time I was at university, studying this particular degree, I've never felt intellectually stimulated. I would look around and see majority of my peers struggling, complaining or simply not caring at all. I knew this really wasn't the place for me, so why did I stay? Maybe because of the security it gave me, knowing I'm doing something. Thankfully, it's actually paid off by getting in to the particular masters I'm due to be starting which is very competitive.
My mother insisted on attending the ceremony but I cannot think of something which is more unfulfilling. The whole time I was at university I felt invisible, yet my academic skills were nothing but. Surely in an institution like a university that's something that should be celebrated. I'm wearing this ridiculous gown, that I've had to rent for a ridiculous price, to get a maximum of 10 seconds of attention by walking across a stage? The university says they're 'celebrating' with us but I think it's comedic. What do you really know about me? Apart from the fact that I'm just another statistic to improve the optics of your university and course.
Sorry, not even going to read what I wrote, having a poopy few days and I'm on a social media detox so can't numb myself. Most likely didn't make sense. Hope it passes quickly

Firstly, I'm really sorry you’re having a tough few days. Is there anyone you can talk to in person? Sometimes I find venting to someone face-to-face helps!

As a University account, we are a little bit biased towards enjoying graduation. However, as the person behind this account, I can understand how you feel. I think it's important to note you aren't alone and graduation can bring up a lot of feelings which maybe you weren't expecting to feel when you look back to your first year.

I think people attend graduation for all different reasons. There will be some people who are attending to celebrate their own success, some who will be going to experience this moment with friends, some who will be going for their family members, some who are going as a way to close off this portion of their life and some who just don't go at all! All of the mentioned are fine.

I’m sorry you felt you were invisible during university. Even if it was one of your lecturers reading your work and thinking ‘wow this person knows what they’re talking about’ - you’ll have made an impact somewhere. You’ve made an impact just here with me now!

So having read all that (hopefully), I just wanted to take a moment to say congratulations for your successes - for getting through university, for getting brilliant results, and for getting accepted onto a masters course.

Graduation is just one more day of your University journey. There may come a time when you reflect on your life and are really proud of everything you’ve achieved and the journey you took to get there.
Celebrate your moment in the way you feel comfortable to do so.

Alex - UoP Rep 🙂
I treated my graduation as a social event. It was a great excuse to catch up with old classmates, meet their families, discover what everyone was moving on to next, and just generally have a laugh and get drunk in the daytime.

Reply 3

Original post
by Anonymous
This isn't really a question. Just a thought piece.
Why are people so excited to graduate. I mean it's really great that you have a qualification and everything but the ultimate goal is a good paying job now to reflect the investments you've put in through all the loans (which will only get bigger the more you leave it, interest is the worst). I'm graduating this year and have been accepted in to a masters which will lead directly in to a career. I'm not giving too much away or what type of industry I'm associated with but it's a field that always needs people and never is not hiring. Anyways, I digress.
I never wanted to attend my graduation ceremony. I've achieved great grades, I'm graduating with a First Class which wasn't a surprise at all, I always knew I had it coming. The whole time I was at university, studying this particular degree, I've never felt intellectually stimulated. I would look around and see majority of my peers struggling, complaining or simply not caring at all. I knew this really wasn't the place for me, so why did I stay? Maybe because of the security it gave me, knowing I'm doing something. Thankfully, it's actually paid off by getting in to the particular masters I'm due to be starting which is very competitive.
My mother insisted on attending the ceremony but I cannot think of something which is more unfulfilling. The whole time I was at university I felt invisible, yet my academic skills were nothing but. Surely in an institution like a university that's something that should be celebrated. I'm wearing this ridiculous gown, that I've had to rent for a ridiculous price, to get a maximum of 10 seconds of attention by walking across a stage? The university says they're 'celebrating' with us but I think it's comedic. What do you really know about me? Apart from the fact that I'm just another statistic to improve the optics of your university and course.
Sorry, not even going to read what I wrote, having a poopy few days and I'm on a social media detox so can't numb myself. Most likely didn't make sense. Hope it passes quickly

Can you tell more about what degree you did and what was your overall degree mark?
I didn’t attend my graduation. It was of no interest to me. But some people seem to like it, I don’t begrudge them the chance to celebrate.

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by jonathan_Smith
Can you tell more about what degree you did and what was your overall degree mark?

They got a first, it’s mentioned in the middle of their post.

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by Admit-One
I didn’t attend my graduation. It was of no interest to me. But some people seem to like it, I don’t begrudge them the chance to celebrate.
They got a first, it’s mentioned in the middle of their post.

I was asking what was their degree percentage. The OP mentioned not feeling intellectually stimulated, that's why I asked.

Also I not sure about "renting the gown for a ridiculous price" in the OP. For example I had my ceremony recently and the gown stuff was all £46 which is nothing nowadays. The expensive part was the photos from tempest, they seem to be very overpriced.

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