Do I suggest deleting tinder?

Me and this guy started talking on tinder about a month ago. We have been messaging every day since then and met up for the first time a couple weeks ago. Since then we've met about 6 times. We haven't had the discussion of where we see this going but we do get on well. I'm wondering whether it would be right to suggest deleting dating apps and if so how should i go about it/what should i say? As far as i'm aware he is still using tinder to talk to some girls so i don't want to scare him off

Reply 1

StriderHort

Sort out for sure if you're actually getting into an exclusive relationship first imo

Reply 2

shakeshaft

Original post by StriderHort

Sort out for sure if you're actually getting into an exclusive relationship first imo

How do i go about asking that?

Reply 3

Zarek

If you’re meeting regularly and particularly if you’re in a sexual relationship it’s reasonable to expect exclusivity. Just say you want to be gf/bf and see what happens

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Reply 4

StriderHort

Original post by shakeshaft

How do i go about asking that?

That's a bit more open ended, but pretty much what @Zarek said. After a bunch of dates or hookups it's normal for someone to raise the Q of where are we going with this? Depending on how things have been going you'll likely have some idea how realistic making a serious relationship and being exclusive is, and if you both agree to be a bit more official then perfectly reasonable at that point to suggest you both delete dating apps for now.

Reply 5

shakeshaft

Original post by StriderHort

How do i ask that? Trying to formulate a text without scaring him off😂

Reply 6

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Volunteer Section Leader, Clearing and Applications Advisor

Original post by shakeshaft

How do i ask that? Trying to formulate a text without scaring him off😂

It's better to have that conversation face-to-face rather than over text. 🙂

Reply 7

NeoIan

Dont be worried about talking about this, would he be happy with you chatting to guys still.. ? how long does he want to semi date you whilst searching for other girls.
Dont put him on a pedastal, if he is offended by your request then let him walk, stand tall and be proud of youself. Im sure you are pretty and nice - so theres probably plenty of lads you can replace him with ? Plenty of fish in sea honestly.
Neo