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Why don't I get romantic addition?

I'm not pretty nor ugly I love myself face body shape and everything i do natural makeup I workout do track and have many hobbies but sometimes I want someone to talk to romantically I know loves comes at the right time but it never seems like it will come to me i'm more attracted to the opposite race of mine but I cant seen to find someone who is attracted to me my longest relationship was 2 years ngl I like a lot of attention but not to a point where it's unreasonable so I guess i'm asking am I crazy for feeling this way?
Reply 1
Hi 🙂 well you sound like a great gal and it’s a shame you are not getting any interest to be honest , do you try and put yourself out there at all though and meet nice guys ?
Reply 2
finding a romantic relationship especially in this day and age is not straight forward. Loads of factors are involved and changes are faster than ever. you need to be patient and gain more emotional and social intelligence and maturity. being easy going plays a role as well. assess your situation, it's not always about you, it could be that you're not in the right environment.
Reply 3
Shy fox ( love the name was an 80s band called sly fox) I think your totally right - internet has made connection shallow and base so from a girls perspective finding true love will be harder as a large majority of young lads will settle and look for quick wins and shags rather than true connection and conversation - which boys is actually longer term the way to get a nice girl but anyway.
Again person anonymous I say go and join physical clubs and groups where there is intelligent decent people - subjects could be pottery / cookery / intelligent sports / art etc . This way you get face to face conversations that are not aimed at getting a quick win for the lads or you.
Btw don’t say you’re not pretty - how do you know how people perceive you ? You’re probably gorgeous to many people and you don’t get told it 🙂 don’t undersell your self please !
Reply 4
Original post by NeoIan
Hi 🙂 well you sound like a great gal and it’s a shame you are not getting any interest to be honest , do you try and put yourself out there at all though and meet nice guys ?

No not really but i'm not a shy person at all
Reply 5
Original post by shyfox
finding a romantic relationship especially in this day and age is not straight forward. Loads of factors are involved and changes are faster than ever. you need to be patient and gain more emotional and social intelligence and maturity. being easy going plays a role as well. assess your situation, it's not always about you, it could be that you're not in the right environment.

I really appreciate that
Reply 6
Original post by NeoIan
Shy fox ( love the name was an 80s band called sly fox) I think your totally right - internet has made connection shallow and base so from a girls perspective finding true love will be harder as a large majority of young lads will settle and look for quick wins and shags rather than true connection and conversation - which boys is actually longer term the way to get a nice girl but anyway.
Again person anonymous I say go and join physical clubs and groups where there is intelligent decent people - subjects could be pottery / cookery / intelligent sports / art etc . This way you get face to face conversations that are not aimed at getting a quick win for the lads or you.
Btw don’t say you’re not pretty - how do you know how people perceive you ? You’re probably gorgeous to many people and you don’t get told it 🙂 don’t undersell your self please !

well thanks🤍
Reply 7
Any time 🙂
Reply 8
Original post by Anonymous
I'm not pretty nor ugly I love myself face body shape and everything i do natural makeup I workout do track and have many hobbies but sometimes I want someone to talk to romantically I know loves comes at the right time but it never seems like it will come to me i'm more attracted to the opposite race of mine but I cant seen to find someone who is attracted to me my longest relationship was 2 years ngl I like a lot of attention but not to a point where it's unreasonable so I guess i'm asking am I crazy for feeling this way?

Perhaps your verbal communication is as bad as your written?

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