Why she has ignored me after showing me theses signs?

There’s was this girl who was friendly to me at school (calling me by pet names, being very touchy to me) and then she started ignoring me out of nowhere, why lol?!

Reply 1

Surnia

Signs of what, being a teenage girl? That's what they do.

Reply 2

Old Skool Freak

Original post by Anonymous

There’s was this girl who was friendly to me at school (calling me by pet names, being very touchy to me) and then she started ignoring me out of nowhere, why lol?!

Bro, take this as a lesson in life... when someone likes you, fancies you, or otherwise shows an interest / attraction to you, you've got a limited time in which to act. In particular, teenagers are notoriously thickle.

It's possible she did fancy you (we'd need more context to offer a more definitive answer)… assuming she did, as I said earlier, she probably went off you for some reason. The three below are the most common:-

1) You've said or done something to put her off you (this includes someone telling her or her finding out something about you)
2) Someone more attractive has caught her eye, and all her attention is on him now
3) She feels she's given you waay to many signs and you didn't pick up on them or reciprocate... she then guessed you weren't interested and she moved on.

Lesson here is, when a girl is showing you signs of interest, bite the bullet and suggest you do something together sooner rather than later (even if that is just hanging out during break-time; it's not much but it's a start). Especially if she's attractive or otherwise desirable… cause if you CBA to make a move, you can bet there's an army of guys who will happily fill your shoes.

On the other hand, some girls ARE naturally very tactile (e.g. touchy-feely), and you read . saw something in that wasn't there. Maybe you tried to make a move or show interest, and it freaked her out (girls can be funny when they find out one of their guy-mates fancies them).

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Original post by Surnia

Signs of what, being a teenage girl? That's what they do.

Not really a teenage girl she was 20 at that time..

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Original post by Old Skool Freak

Bro, take this as a lesson in life... when someone likes you, fancies you, or otherwise shows an interest / attraction to you, you've got a limited time in which to act. In particular, teenagers are notoriously thickle.
It's possible she did fancy you (we'd need more context to offer a more definitive answer)… assuming she did, as I said earlier, she probably went off you for some reason. The three below are the most common:-
1) You've said or done something to put her off you (this includes someone telling her or her finding out something about you)
2) Someone more attractive has caught her eye, and all her attention is on him now
3) She feels she's given you waay to many signs and you didn't pick up on them or reciprocate... she then guessed you weren't interested and she moved on.
Lesson here is, when a girl is showing you signs of interest, bite the bullet and suggest you do something together sooner rather than later (even if that is just hanging out during break-time; it's not much but it's a start). Especially if she's attractive or otherwise desirable… cause if you CBA to make a move, you can bet there's an army of guys who will happily fill your shoes.
On the other hand, some girls ARE naturally very tactile (e.g. touchy-feely), and you read . saw something in that wasn't there. Maybe you tried to make a move or show interest, and it freaked her out (girls can be funny when they find out one of their guy-mates fancies them).

U said ”teenagers” lmao but the girl was 20 at the time.. as for more details I met her at school at the beginning of the school year she sat next to me, was more and more friendly as days go by this includes called me by pet names being very touchy etc.. and suddenly while I have done nothing wrong she just started ignored me lol.. and ok thx bro for the lessons I’II take care!