I’ve aadded out based on length of Christmas, Easter and summer uni holidays that we spend equal time at home and uni in a year. 6 months either way. Couples from home often break up before uni due to distance but if you dated someone at uni you’d also be distance for the same amount of time in a year as someone from home? It just doesn’t make sense. I’m talking about people who aren’t breaking up to get around at uni with lots of ppl, but genuinely just due to the distance