BF shared TMI with friends?!

I was re-watching SATC recently with my BF, who is basically on his phone for every episode but somehow manages to catch every sex scene and everything involving Samantha 🤣
Got to the episode where they go to see the 'lingam massage', and BF says, "Is that not just a handjob?"
Half out of curiosity and half thinking if he enjoyed it, it would be an easier alternative to oral, I found a free film guide online and decided to try it out on him! It was a fully nude film! 😳
Cue following Saturday and housemates are out all day, so I surprise BF by putting the film on the TV and copying it. Worked a treat and he didn't even make it to the end of the film. Great! 😀

Fast forward 2 weeks and we're at local Hungry Horse, having dinner with a couple that we're good friends with. BF gets up to go to bar for drinks, and friend's man offers to give him a hand, at which point F of couple quips, "I don't think he wants 'your' hand."
They smile at each other, BF goes bright red, and I feel my stomach drop!
Cue an awkward rest of the evening and a very charged discussion at home!...
BF being the indiscreet git he is, has told his mate about what I did (they work together) and he has obviously told his GF. Which wasn't what I had in mind!
My BF doesn't see what he did wrong as apparently the two blokes share quite a lot (which I didn't know about before!)
Thinks I'm overreacting as it's not 'that' rude a thing I did to him. And to make things worse, even wants to know what the film was called because his mate wants it, presumably so he can try to persuade his GF to watch it!!!

I know they all went to see it actually done for real in SATC, as BF keeps reminding me, so this isn't as bad as that?! But I'm in the right to be embarrassed about it? Blokes are still wanting us to go out and I'm supposed to look at her knowing she knows what I did!

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Zarek

It’s bad form, tell him to cut it out in future if he wants any more shenanigans. Mind you, you’ve pretty much spilt the beans on every detail yourself