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Ask her to by my gf

Hi, at the end of my second year at uni i met a girl on a night out and ever since then we have messaged everyday and have met a few times as well. We are both going on a trip to london and i really want to ask her to by my girlfriend, we are meeting on Thursday with a cinema booked that afternoon, trip to an other city on Friday, shopping on Saturday and going out and then a romantic dinner date on Sunday.

The issue is i dont know when to ask her as i dont want to wait till Sunday as we are long distance and want to enjoy time after asking but i also don’t want to ask to soon.

She’s been giving me hints recently that she also wants to be dating so i know we both want to

Thanks for any help
(edited 4 months ago)
Hello.

I'm pretty old school, but I would just politely shoot your shot as soon as you can.
If she's been giving you 'hints' then she may want you to ask her out soon.
I'd just ask her out Thursday in a polite fashion.

The more you beat around the bush, the more awkward it will be in my experience.
(edited 4 months ago)
Reply 2
Sounds like you’re dating already. I would wait to see her and bring this up when the moment is right. Or just let it naturally drift that way
As a girl, you should definitely ask because it sounds like she likes you back

FYI something girls like a lot is when a guy asks "can I be your boyfriend" instead of 'do you want to be my girlfriend?'

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