Issues

I am terribly lonely. I crave a boyfriend or male support a lot. I have never made guy friends or had any guy relation in life. At the same time i dont want to get married. I never had much friends in life as such neither in school or college. I am currently doing nothing much in life. I dont want to have any relation with my family anymore. I dont like my dad. I am scared of his intentions. I feel he does not love me or care about me. I am scared of getting married in further life. I am disturbed because my career is not going anywhere. I want to move out desperately. And feel like run away from home.

Reply 1

jelllyfiiish

Life & Style Forum Helper

Original post by Anonymous

Love is something many desire and crave - its frustrating to wait for the period in your life where love carves its way back to you.

What I'm seeing here is just line after line of negative points in your life so far. So I would say, instead of focusing on these issues, look towards a much more positive view!

Take a deep breath and control your thoughts, you've still got your whole life ahead of you to decide what you want to do.

Take risks in life.
Start off with enjoying what you have around you before things dissipate and disappear.

Do what you want! Start by earning money from a job that is available and move out of your home when you've saved enough.

You don't have to like your father, no one is forcing you to. But you should try to understand where the root of fear is coming from. I'd say try talking to him about this and get over this fear!

Back to love.

I heard a saying once that love is all just about dumb luck and that it can suddenly appear randomly in your life. Its about giving your permissions to have support on both ends.

Moreover, take your chance and take every opportunity you get! Go out often and try to find what you're looking for.

Either way, more positive things will come your way - love is inevitable and will find a place in your heart.

Hope you're having a wonderful week! 😄

Reply 2

maxxisz

Maybe find a support group or a therapist. It's great that your seeking help on TSR because it shows that your trying to solve the problem. You could also go to events or other social places with meet ups and try to find friends there.