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What does it mean when a guy want to text before bed time?

Dont get me wrong, he is not texting me only during night time, we are texting for a month and a half without stop everyday.. we dont say goodnight or good morning one of us doesnt reply so the convo continues the next day since morning to late night. He always texts me during the day sends me pics what he’s doing asking me the convo is always alive he is busy during day but still manages to text me and let me know.. when it’s 10pm and we are both in bed we tend to text nonstop for 2 hours before one of us falls asleep, what does it mean when a guy wants to text u during bed time like that?
Reply 1
For me it just sounds like an extension of the nice conversation you are having during the day, he obviously feels he wants to connect when he goes to bed but I wouldnt say its suggesting anything more than liking you alot and wanting to talk to you right now. Dont read into it too much, just carry on with the nice connection.
Reply 2
Original post by NeoIan
For me it just sounds like an extension of the nice conversation you are having during the day, he obviously feels he wants to connect when he goes to bed but I wouldnt say its suggesting anything more than liking you alot and wanting to talk to you right now. Dont read into it too much, just carry on with the nice connection.

if we can talk so nicely online we can also do it in person.. but he has never suggested a date or something. If he doesn’t like me romantically why would a guy waste his time with some girl he doesn’t like even texting is waste of time..
Original post by Anonymous
if we can talk so nicely online we can also do it in person.. but he has never suggested a date or something. If he doesn’t like me romantically why would a guy waste his time with some girl he doesn’t like even texting is waste of time..

Have you ever met him in person ?. Have you ever seen him live on screen ?.
Reply 4
He might be shy, and btw with your generation alot of people cant socialise in person anymore due to smart phone addication, so dont blame him ok, just encourage it by a suggested time and date :smile:?
A bedtime chat delivery exhibits faulty Game habits. It just kinda loses meaningful novelty. Often pretty quickly.
Reply 6
Faulty game habits ?
Original post by NeoIan
Faulty game habits ?
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Reply 8
He wants to jerk off
Reply 9
Original post by NeoIan
He might be shy, and btw with your generation alot of people cant socialise in person anymore due to smart phone addication, so dont blame him ok, just encourage it by a suggested time and date :smile:?


It is hard nowadays to communicate as online communication is or can be usually very awkward
Reply 10
Online communication is broken communication or limited communication. It doesn’t carry everything so it only transfers some of the message back-and-forth face-to-face communication is best.

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