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Do I make contact

Good Morning,

Thank you to whoever reads this it won’t be long but whatever tip/advice is appreciated. It’s not a long story but here goes. On Monday I was expected to meet my partner at the cinema to go watch a movie, we met but we didn’t go to watch this is because we had spoken over the phone about how a lack of time being spent with one and other in our relationship is affecting each other. Especially since she’s picking more hours at work, doing more days and I am being more flexible around work to make time and space to see her as well as work. Well I did anyways, supposing yesterday or either today would have been a chance to meet and spend time with one and other although the way it looks like it I doubt it’ll happen for today anyways as yesterday gone. In person I addressed that the lack of time being spent is a concern she just walked out of the cinema, before making her way home. I told her she walks away this is the end of us and she should consider carefully without even due hesitance she just walked away and made her way home. It’s been or going to be 3 days now we’ve been in no contact, neither of us spoke, besides exchanging snaps on snap due to our ever going streak, do you think she’ll make contact or reach out. I am regrettably thinking about what happened long and hard, emotionally I feel sad and upset, lonely even and I miss her but at the same time I don’t want to reach out to her purely because I am unsure whether she’s reflected on this herself, she has a stubborn nature, consisting of short temperament not bad but when it is it is and this is the girl where not only do I do things like pick her up and drop her off from and to work, even her house out of wellbeing and welfare concern, but the girl I look after when she is off feeling unwell and ill that I have done recently even too, to the girl where I spoil her with gifts just out of love and to show my appreciation of her as I am an all 5 love language guy, and to the girl where I support her in her educational ambitions, goals even career and have been through supporting her since day one from when we first met guiding her out of the path of trouble hand held together.

I just feel so low right now. 😔😕

Reply 1

NeoIan

Hey, well look it depends a bit how much you care about her or being with her really. I dont use snap chat, but if you are exchanging snaps isnt that contact of some kind, and shows she still cares - ?
I would just weigh up as to if you care to carry on then reach out ?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Original post by NeoIan

Streaks wise, we haven’t verbally spoke or met one and other since Monday? She only reached out to me because she’s had to take something of her’s back from me as her mother needs it.