I have a part time job so I usually work Saturday and Sunday, or do all my hours in one day. It’s the summer holidays now so obviously I can pick up shifts during the week and sometimes have a day off on the weekend. However my problem is that my parents are complaining I don’t spend enough time with them and they want to do things during the weekend. They want me to drop a shift every once in a while which is reasonable enough I guess - but all I’m thinking is the fact I’ve been hired as a part time employee for the weekends. I feel like I shouldn’t be dropping shifts if they’re what I’ve been hired to do - it completely goes against why they hired me. They might as well have just hired someone else if I’m going to be that unreliable. We have a holiday coming up at the end of the summer which I’ll take holiday for and one in the autumn which I’ll take off as well, so I don’t particularly want to be taking all of my holiday and then have none left. Obviously I can take more shifts during the summer holiday but I also feel like these weekdays aren’t even in my contract so it doesn’t matter whether I do them or not because at the end of the day I do a Sat/Sun, these are just extra. Sometimes my rota only has one day during the weekend but then it’d be harder to plan something because I find out a week before.
Anyways, does anyone have any advice? I want to spend time with my family and not be a doormat and miss out on family time just to go to work, but also I don’t want to seem unreliable.