Am I a bad friend for leaving my mate after the club to go home with a guy?
I went out to de club with a friend couple days ago, we both go dance and chat up other people so I thought it wouldn’t be a big deal for him but I after the club finished I went to leave wot go home with a guy, I didn’t just leave my mate without saying anything either I spoke to him when we left the club and asked if it was alright for for me to go and said our goodbyes, but he looked ****ed over it. I messaged him saying sorry if it was a hole of me for me to have done that but he’s left me on read. Idk if he’s bothered by it bc we hooked up once before and he’s still kind of into me, I made it aware that I just want to strictly be friends with him, and it’s a double standard if he goes off dancing with other girls but mad about me doing this I’d be cool if he left the club with someone as long as he let me know.
Reply 1
Hey there,
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Hard to say, if you hooked up with your friend there is definitely a chance he feels something further, especially since he is distant now - how has he been after the hookup?
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If the friend was drunk or disoriented, etc it might not have been a very nice thing to do. But otherwise, you shouldn't feel obliged to remain glued to them
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If he's dancing with other girls then it does seem like he wants you to himself without commitment on his side
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I hope you are able to reach a resolution with your friend but if they continue to be unreasonable, it may be time to re-evaluate the friendship
Reply 2
He must soundsa bit jealous tbh, he'll likely get over it.
Reply 3
I am so confused. Like not judging but why are you two friends if you know he's still into you and you are going clubbing with him knowing it will be messy? This doesn't sound like a friendship to me personally.
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