Okay guys here's a question

When you have sex with a virgin and she has an intact hymen, do you "feel" when the hymen "pops/tears/breaks/rips"?* Do you have to apply a lot more pressure to barrel past the barrier?

I don't think you will. You might feel slight resistance, but don't push past anything that's causing her too much of pain.
But she probably (definitely) will feel the breaking, and you better be paying attention coz it can really hurt, so go slow, hear her out, stop if and when she needs to, definitely use a safe lubrication to help with the whole thing
Check in on her the day after coz it sometimes still does hurt, she might even bleed a bit, don't dismiss the bleeding as normal if it becomes more than one or 2 days of fresh, red bleeding

Is this anonymous from a girl?

Yep
And one that lost her virginity around 2 months ago, so the experience is pretty fresh in my mind

when you have sex with a virgin and she has an intact hymen, do you "feel" when the hymen "pops/tears/breaks/rips"?* do you have to apply a lot more pressure to barrel past the barrier?

help im a virgin what breaks 😭

Was yours done slowly or one thrust? How painful would you rate it? How long until you healed and vagina fully (hymen) recovered. I've heard some say it only hurts the initial first time then next time sex doesn't hurt and some say opposite.

Not the person you quoted but also female, so will share my experiences. I will, however, preface with saying that I had a septate hymen so my experiences might be slightly different to average.
For me, it was one thrust and not super painful (maybe 7/10?) and the pain as relatively brief (like a few seconds at that intensity). If you use tampons, the pain feels similar to the feeling when the tampon is not in deep enough and is rubbing against your hymen (though this may be septate hymen thing so not sure if all women will know what I'm talking about...). The pain afterwards lasted around 3 days - just felt stingy, especially when peeing. Sex was not painful the next time for me.

? Except 7/10 is closer to 10. If child birth is 9/10 and being skinned alive or burned to death or dissolving away being eaten by acid is 10/10 and breaking a bone is 5ish? Doesn't make sense it got rated higher as a 7/10 then right after say "not super painful". Clarify?

I have never broken a bone or had a child or burnt to death... To me, period pain is easily 8/10 and the pain from losing my virginity was less painful.

Did you go on birth control to help for cramps or have another underlying condition like endometriosis Pelvic Inflammatory?

Was yours done slowly or one thrust? How painful would you rate it? How long until you healed and vagina fully (hymen) recovered. I've heard some say it only hurts the initial first time then next time sex doesn't hurt and some say opposite.