why do I keep thinking abt random people

I saw this guy from a school near mine, I still find him attractive even 2 years later, never spoke to him, just saw him on the highstreet every now and then. I saw a guy on holiday 3 weeks ago, I still can't stop thinking abt him, again, I only played volleyball with him but he couldn't speak English. I saw a guy who I swear was a model, all he did was smile at me and now I can't stop thinking abt me.
There was literally no chance for me to talk to them, even looking back, I can't say I don't regret doing anything because there was simply nothing I could do yet I still think abt them. Why do I do this and how do I stop?

Reply 1

Old Skool Freak

I wouldn't worry about it, you just sound like a normal teenager.

Main thing to remember is Fantasy isn't always the same as Reality. It's probably the fantasy you have of them that you're attracted to, rather than them as people (after all, you've not spoken to any of these guys, so you've no idea what they're like or even if you're compatible). There's nothing wrong with that... everyone does it from time to time (even fully grown adults lol)

Assuming you're single and never dated anyone, I'm guessing this would all stop if / when you get a BF.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Original post by Old Skool Freak

I wouldn't worry about it, you just sound like a normal teenager.
Main thing to remember is Fantasy isn't always the same as Reality. It's probably the fantasy you have of them that you're attracted to, rather than them as people (after all, you've not spoken to any of these guys, so you've no idea what they're like or even if you're compatible). There's nothing wrong with that... everyone does it from time to time (even fully grown adults lol)
Assuming you're single and never dated anyone, I'm guessing this would all stop if / when you get a BF.

okay good thing its normal, I was thinking I was strange for it thank you