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How to balance life

Hi all,

I’ve just started working full time but I’m wondering how people can balance different things like studying or working out or hobbies etc. I’ve seen people on YouTube but it seems so unrealistic and unhealthy. Is anyone specifically working and trying to lose weight? That’s what in struggling with at the moment and I also have a course I need to study for so how can I balance my time and self care?

Thanks x
Original post by Anonymous
Hi all,
I’ve just started working full time but I’m wondering how people can balance different things like studying or working out or hobbies etc. I’ve seen people on YouTube but it seems so unrealistic and unhealthy. Is anyone specifically working and trying to lose weight? That’s what in struggling with at the moment and I also have a course I need to study for so how can I balance my time and self care?
Thanks x

It's a tough call.

The people who I regard as productivity masters include Elon Musk and James Franco. These people are on another level, and it's very unlikely we would see people who can top them by a good margin in the near future. The average mortal on the other hand are not productivity gods.

My rule of thumb though (because I am partly lazy whilst having a long list of goals) are:

1.

Find out the maximum number of hours you can sustainably do week after week for at least 3 months without burnout - for me, this number is 60 hours

2.

After finding out the max hours per week, deduct 8 hours of sleep per day, deduct 1-2 hours for daily tasks (e.g. wash, eat, dress, chores, etc.), deduct time for gym or workout, deduct commuting time, deduct grocery shopping time, and deduct about 1 hour per day for slack

3.

Whatever time you are left is the time that you have for study

For your sanity, do not exceed the max number of hours that you can sustain.

Tips for saving time (or shave the amount of time from the above):

Study smart as opposed to study hard (you need both, but prioritise smart over hard) - look to see how people who completed your course studied

Use productivity, CRM, and calendar apps to time and organise your work and personal life (so long it doesn't violate GDPR for your work)

If there is a lot of admin work and you have substantial income, consider hiring a virtual assistant to work as your PA if necessary

If you have problems setting up some sort of schedule, consider using AI (e.g. Notion, ChatGPT) to set up your schedule (will need you to be very specific and include a lot of detail)

Only dip into your email inbox 2-3 times a day max - constant multitasking is not only unhealthy, but a deterrent to productivity

If your work involve a lot of typing or reading, consider picking up skills to speed up your work e.g. touch typing to improve typing speed and speed reading

If you drive a fair distance to work (no alternatives around this), then consider listening to audiobooks or recordings of your notes whilst you drive (rare occasions when multitasking can be beneficial).

If you live more than 30 minutes away from work (be it drive, bus journey, train journey, walking, etc.) , consider getting a place closer to work

If you could, work remotely until you have at least finished your studies

Try not to multitask and instead cluster similar tasks together

When reflecting on what you do at the end of the day (if you don't do this already), track your productivity and what you have accomplished - use a diary for this. Track the time spent as well.

Have study and gym partners - working with other people/groups tend to build on synergy

If you cook your own meals, cook everything for the week together and cook as much as you can at once - clustering your tasks; the fewer cooking sessions, the better

Set up a routine and make sure you stick to it until it becomes a habit - usually takes 21 days for it to become semi permanent, and 90 days for it to be almost permanent.

The first 4 hours of the day after you feel the most "awake" is usually when you get the most done/have the most willpower (if you are a morning person for example, the first 4 hours you wake up is your most productive; if you are better in the afternoon, the first 4 hours in the afternoon are the best for you; etc.). Prioritise the most difficult and time consuming tasks during these hours, and then allow yourself to do the less mentally taxing tasks during other hours.

Organise your tasks according to what is urgent (or not) and what is important (or not) - see Steven Covey's matrix. The tasks that are not urgent and important are your top priority right after your urgent and important tasks. Any tasks that aren't important, try to find a way to delegate/outsource or say no to.

If the task is repetitive, try to see if you can find a way of automating it or at least organise it in such a way where you can go through the work in the least amount of time possible. If it's something you can make AI do for you, so much the better.

Where possible, try to get gym equipment at home so you won't need to go to the gym often - saves you money as well unless you need to heavy duty equipment

Schedule your down time, because if you don't you won't have any

Spend 5 minutes at the end of your day planning for tomorrow. Hold yourself accountable for what you achieve tomorrow and reflect around the same time tomorrow prior to your planning. Reflect daily, weekly, monthly, and quarterly. Keep note and keep track of your progress.


Just out of interest, what are you studying and how far have you gotten?

People I follow for productivity and/or studying:
Ali Abdaal - https://www.youtube.com/aliabdaal
Thomas Frank - https://www.youtube.com/thomasfrank
Nathaniel Drew - https://www.youtube.com/@nathanieldrew
Matt D’Avella - https://www.youtube.com/@mattdavella
Jeff Su - https://www.youtube.com/@JeffSu
Better Ideas - https://www.youtube.com/betterideas
Original post by Anonymous
Hi all,
I’ve just started working full time but I’m wondering how people can balance different things like studying or working out or hobbies etc. I’ve seen people on YouTube but it seems so unrealistic and unhealthy. Is anyone specifically working and trying to lose weight? That’s what in struggling with at the moment and I also have a course I need to study for so how can I balance my time and self care?
Thanks x

Hi there,

I can appreciate this feeling, especially when trying to fit in studying into an already busy schedule. Since finishing uni this year I've found it hard to be as productive with my time and build up a stable routine.

Something that I noticed really impacts my day and how I'm feeling is my sleep schedule. I like to stay up late, but I find if I stay up too late, I then want to sleep in and my day doesn't really start until the afternoon. Or, if I have work or uni and I need to get up early, I'm lagging by the afternoon so I don't make the most of my day as I'm so tired.
I would try your best to build a decent yet realistic sleep schedule. I don't go to sleep at the exact same time everyday, but I try to put my phone away and wind down before I sleep. And I still lie in some days, but I make sure I'm going to bed and getting up at a reasonable time when I can.

Regarding balancing work and studying, and a social life/gym/free time, I've started to dedicate certain days as my 'days off' when I can. For example, when I am at uni, I have two full days in classes, I'll then work 1-2 days in my retail job and will want to spend a day or so on study work and household chores. I try to fit as much of this into my Monday-Friday schedule, and I try to have at least one day off at the weekend where I have no work or uni commitments for a complete break. Again, this isn't always possible, but when I can I try my best as it keeps me mentally refreshed.

Working out/gym motivation is something I struggle the most with when working/studying as I always feel too tired to go after work, and it feels too early and unattainable to go before work. I've started to take the pressure off my workout schedule to reducer the 'guilt' if I don't go to the gym some days. I aim to go to they gym at least 3 times a week, but if I can't make it, or I'm lacking some motivation, I'll try to at least go on a walk or follow a workout video at home so that I'm still doing something towards my fitness goals.

I know right now it might feel like you want to build the perfect routine and fix everything into place all at once, but realistically this isn't the most sustainable way to adopt a new routine. Try to focus on one thing to start - I'd focus on sleep personally - and take things from there.

Hope this helps. 🙂
Emily
Student Rep at BCU
Original post by Anonymous
Hi all,
I’ve just started working full time but I’m wondering how people can balance different things like studying or working out or hobbies etc. I’ve seen people on YouTube but it seems so unrealistic and unhealthy. Is anyone specifically working and trying to lose weight? That’s what in struggling with at the moment and I also have a course I need to study for so how can I balance my time and self care?
Thanks x

Hi,

Keeping a handle on your time while you work and study can be complicated, especially with everyday life commitments adding to the stress. If you feel like you need a little help, have a read of these tips to support you with balancing work and study:

Manage your diary and stick to a routine
Plan out your diary for that week alongside your work hours so you can see what each day will look like. Create your daily routine and stick to it.

Set aside time for yourself
Studying and working is a balancing act, but don’t forget to make time for yourself. Continuing with your hobbies, socialising with family and friends, and making time for self-care is really important, and helps you perform better in your studies and at work too.

Find a workspace that works for you
Knowing where I worked best was a game changer for me as it helped me to make the most out of my study time. The university library was my best space, but everyone works in different ways, and it might be that you study well at home, or in a coffee shop. Finding a location that works for you can help you create a consistent routine and improve your productivity.

Prioritise
This may sound cliché but look at your workload alongside your social calendar and understand what needs to be done now and what doesn’t. Can going for drinks with your friends be rearranged to focus on working on your assignment that’s due in in two weeks? You can still have a social life but be willing to sacrifice– short term pain, long term gain!

Be honest
Let your friends, family and colleagues know that you’re juggling a lot, so if you need extra time on a work project or need to rearrange plans with your loved ones they can understand.

Get comfortable with the uncomfortable
Working and studying at the same time requires patience and a lot of hard work, but it will be worth it when you get to where you want to be.

I hope these help!
Hannah- Teesside Uni
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Original post by Anonymous
Hi all,
I’ve just started working full time but I’m wondering how people can balance different things like studying or working out or hobbies etc. I’ve seen people on YouTube but it seems so unrealistic and unhealthy. Is anyone specifically working and trying to lose weight? That’s what in struggling with at the moment and I also have a course I need to study for so how can I balance my time and self care?
Thanks x

Rather than trying to lose weight e.g. "I just need to lose a stone", why not work towards just being more healthy, balancing eating good food in a healthy manner with exercise and a generally active lifestyle. One you have hit your target weight I will guarantee you will find yourself back in square 1 because you will go back to bad habits. One thing that will make a massive difference is cutting out ultra-processed food. If the ingredients list contains modified starch or anything else that doesn't sound like "carrot" or "onion", avoid.

As for balancing life - write down your priorities. Make sure you put self care on the list and then literally diarise times when you will be exercising, hobbies, study, self care etc etc. It takes practice but you will get there. They key for me is to build exercise into your hobbies or working day so that it doesn't feel like exercise e.g. walk / cycle to work.
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Hi all, thank you so much for your replies. They have really helped!

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