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Why am I not sad about this at all?

so basically a few months ago my bf at the time cheated on me and how I found out was by going through (accidently) his following and seeing a girl and turns out they had been dating for a couple of days we had been dating a month so then I obviously told our mutual friend and my friends this is what he did and they had a go at him so he blocked me on Instagram and removed me on snapchat but before this he has set the theme on our Insta dm's to Love and he didn't change it but whilst all of this was going on I wasn't crying about it I was actually ****ed abt it for 5 minutes and since then I've been laughing abt it but I'm trying to figure out where I went wrong.

Reply 1

i dont think it's your fault. i broke up with some dude who was manipulative (not as bad as cheating) but i was crying so much *during* the relationship, then when he broke it off... i was just slightly ****ed. and relieved. this dude u were dating was probably a bit of an asshat during the relationship even before he cheated, and he doesn't deserve you being sad about it at all.

Reply 2

You didn't go wrong.
Sometimes it's just simply that person is a dishonest crappy person. The end.

Reply 3

Original post by Anonymous
i dont think it's your fault. i broke up with some dude who was manipulative (not as bad as cheating) but i was crying so much *during* the relationship, then when he broke it off... i was just slightly ****ed. and relieved. this dude u were dating was probably a bit of an asshat during the relationship even before he cheated, and he doesn't deserve you being sad about it at all.

No actually he was really sweet during our relationship he took take of me. He wanted to sneak into my house thou when I was sick tbh I should've have listened to my friends who know him they called him a man-****

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