My bf calls me a hoe and refers to other girls as hoes.
He is really picky about what I wear. I can’t wear certain clothes because it’s what a hoe would wear. I wore a skirt and he got mad at me and told me to change into sweats. I wore a crop top and he got mad at me. We went to the gym and I had a sports bra on with a cute jacket and he got really mad to the point he didn’t want to see me. Last time I wore some leggings and a tank top that wasn’t showing any cleavage or my stomach and he called me a hoe. And the shirt was appropriate too, but pointed at my bra strap that was showing and I told him that was normal.I had to ask a girl at the gym and she was like you look fine. What do I do
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Reply 1
leave them find someone who is less mean
Reply 2
Boyfriends should be supportive not controlling. He needs to work on insecurity issues rather than taking it out on you and other people. Hopefully it all goes well for you girl
Reply 3
Original post by Endless_crown
He is really picky about what I wear. I can’t wear certain clothes because it’s what a hoe would wear. I wore a skirt and he got mad at me and told me to change into sweats. I wore a crop top and he got mad at me. We went to the gym and I had a sports bra on with a cute jacket and he got really mad to the point he didn’t want to see me. Last time I wore some leggings and a tank top that wasn’t showing any cleavage or my stomach and he called me a hoe. And the shirt was appropriate too, but pointed at my bra strap that was showing and I told him that was normal.I had to ask a girl at the gym and she was like you look fine. What do I do
He is either a control freak and very inscure, or he is seeing how far he can go an control you. Personally I would back off from the relationship and break it off. He does not sound nice.
It does rather beg the question why he's still your BF.
Move on and let him try and control the next person. Life is too short.
Move on and let him try and control the next person. Life is too short.
Reply 5
Wear the sexiest / most glamorous outfits every time you see your boyfriend.
If he kicks off, say in a positive, enthusiastic way "If you don't like it. The door's over there. I aint changing what I wear for no man."
And then the next time after that, if he's still coming out with his nonsense tell him "I can see you're not feeling it tonight. I'll leave you to have a quiet night. I'm off out with my besties. See ya later!"
If he kicks off, say in a positive, enthusiastic way "If you don't like it. The door's over there. I aint changing what I wear for no man."
And then the next time after that, if he's still coming out with his nonsense tell him "I can see you're not feeling it tonight. I'll leave you to have a quiet night. I'm off out with my besties. See ya later!"
Reply 6
Dump his ass he’s obviously got issues
Reply 7
Original post by Dunnig Kruger
Wear the sexiest / most glamorous outfits every time you see your boyfriend.
If he kicks off, say in a positive, enthusiastic way "If you don't like it. The door's over there. I aint changing what I wear for no man."
And then the next time after that, if he's still coming out with his nonsense tell him "I can see you're not feeling it tonight. I'll leave you to have a quiet night. I'm off out with my besties. See ya later!"
If he kicks off, say in a positive, enthusiastic way "If you don't like it. The door's over there. I aint changing what I wear for no man."
And then the next time after that, if he's still coming out with his nonsense tell him "I can see you're not feeling it tonight. I'll leave you to have a quiet night. I'm off out with my besties. See ya later!"
or they just leave randomly one day and block all communication to avoid it getting violent?
Reply 8
I think you know what to ask you are posting here.
He sounds very immature and I have no idea why you put up with such insults.
He sounds very immature and I have no idea why you put up with such insults.
Reply 10
Dump him and block him what an *******
Reply 11
Original post by Endless_crown
He is really picky about what I wear. I can’t wear certain clothes because it’s what a hoe would wear. I wore a skirt and he got mad at me and told me to change into sweats. I wore a crop top and he got mad at me. We went to the gym and I had a sports bra on with a cute jacket and he got really mad to the point he didn’t want to see me. Last time I wore some leggings and a tank top that wasn’t showing any cleavage or my stomach and he called me a hoe. And the shirt was appropriate too, but pointed at my bra strap that was showing and I told him that was normal.I had to ask a girl at the gym and she was like you look fine. What do I do
you break up with him you don't allow a boy to call you a hoe and get away with it.
Reply 12
Original post by Endless_crown
He is really picky about what I wear. I can’t wear certain clothes because it’s what a hoe would wear. I wore a skirt and he got mad at me and told me to change into sweats. I wore a crop top and he got mad at me. We went to the gym and I had a sports bra on with a cute jacket and he got really mad to the point he didn’t want to see me. Last time I wore some leggings and a tank top that wasn’t showing any cleavage or my stomach and he called me a hoe. And the shirt was appropriate too, but pointed at my bra strap that was showing and I told him that was normal.I had to ask a girl at the gym and she was like you look fine. What do I do
Honestly, leave him.
Reply 14
Original post by Anonymous
Honestly, leave him.
beat him up with a hoe tool lmao
I actually have no problem with the fact that a guy tells you what to wear, that's something that is permissable or not based upon the agreed terms of your relationship.
The issue here is that instead of telling you to wear something he finds very attractive, your boyfriend appears to be motivated by insecurity and fear. This is especially strange when your together since your hardly likely to be entertaining other men.
You should discuss why he's insecure and then assess whether he's too pitiful to continue with or whether this is a resolvable situation. Make it clear that you want a man who trusts you and not somebody motivated by fear.
The issue here is that instead of telling you to wear something he finds very attractive, your boyfriend appears to be motivated by insecurity and fear. This is especially strange when your together since your hardly likely to be entertaining other men.
You should discuss why he's insecure and then assess whether he's too pitiful to continue with or whether this is a resolvable situation. Make it clear that you want a man who trusts you and not somebody motivated by fear.
Reply 17
Original post by Endless_crown
He is really picky about what I wear. I can’t wear certain clothes because it’s what a hoe would wear. I wore a skirt and he got mad at me and told me to change into sweats. I wore a crop top and he got mad at me. We went to the gym and I had a sports bra on with a cute jacket and he got really mad to the point he didn’t want to see me. Last time I wore some leggings and a tank top that wasn’t showing any cleavage or my stomach and he called me a hoe. And the shirt was appropriate too, but pointed at my bra strap that was showing and I told him that was normal.I had to ask a girl at the gym and she was like you look fine. What do I do
He seems to be overly protective and there appears to be a clash in moral values based on attire. He probably prefers to more conservative look on his girl but you are one who likes to show more out.
My suggestion is to speak to him to seek a middle ground. It there is none, you should part ways amicably, as you both wont be happy.
Original post by Endless_crown
He is really picky about what I wear. I can’t wear certain clothes because it’s what a hoe would wear. I wore a skirt and he got mad at me and told me to change into sweats. I wore a crop top and he got mad at me. We went to the gym and I had a sports bra on with a cute jacket and he got really mad to the point he didn’t want to see me. Last time I wore some leggings and a tank top that wasn’t showing any cleavage or my stomach and he called me a hoe. And the shirt was appropriate too, but pointed at my bra strap that was showing and I told him that was normal.I had to ask a girl at the gym and she was like you look fine. What do I do
Run girlie. If he can't empower you and support you emotionally, leave his arse.
Original post by Endless_crown
He is really picky about what I wear. I can’t wear certain clothes because it’s what a hoe would wear. I wore a skirt and he got mad at me and told me to change into sweats. I wore a crop top and he got mad at me. We went to the gym and I had a sports bra on with a cute jacket and he got really mad to the point he didn’t want to see me. Last time I wore some leggings and a tank top that wasn’t showing any cleavage or my stomach and he called me a hoe. And the shirt was appropriate too, but pointed at my bra strap that was showing and I told him that was normal.I had to ask a girl at the gym and she was like you look fine. What do I do
girl get a new one el
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