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What does it mean when a guy cry during argument?

I was telling him (my crush) how i feel like hes been using me. To which it triggers him and he kinda mad at it saying how my statement makes him sad and mad.. Then throughout the ‘argument’ we literally werent looking into each other’s eyes (i did so because i wanna hide my teary eyes) then few times i look at him, i realise he was wiping his tears.. and even at one point, when we look into each other eyes, i can see his eyes is teary and his words stutter to the point he stop talking (guess because he control not to cry)

Im not judging him crying, im glad at least he do has a sincere feelings about this whole situation.. but i wonder if guys cry in such situation, usually what do they feel? I cry because ofcourse i love him and he hurts me

Reply 1

He told you how he felt and it's the same as you crying during the argument.

Reply 2

Original post by Surnia
He told you how he felt and it's the same as you crying during the argument.

Cry because of mad? Because i dont think hes hurting or sad. And whats the chances he like me? Because ive heard a guy wont cry because of a girl unless he likes her..

Reply 3

Original post by Anonymous
Cry because of mad? Because i dont think hes hurting or sad. And whats the chances he like me? Because ive heard a guy wont cry because of a girl unless he likes her..

I am a bloke who cries on occasions . I would say he is crying emotionally ,NOT from being Mad. Men usually cry from emotions ,or emotional hurt. I would say perhaps it his love for you makes him cry, if he did'nt care then he would NOT cry. If there is one thing I have learnt in this life, women are MUCH stronger emotionally than men are.

Reply 4

Original post by Anonymous
I am a bloke who cries on occasions . I would say he is crying emotionally ,NOT from being Mad. Men usually cry from emotions ,or emotional hurt. I would say perhaps it his love for you makes him cry, if he did'nt care then he would NOT cry. If there is one thing I have learnt in this life, women are MUCH stronger emotionally than men are.

Now you caught my attention on the last statement. Why would you think so? Cuz I personally encounter lots of guys that are literally built with a steel heart.. they truly dont care or even if they did, not as deep as women

Reply 5

Everyone is different, some handle things better than others

Reply 6

Original post by Anonymous
Now you caught my attention on the last statement. Why would you think so? Cuz I personally encounter lots of guys that are literally built with a steel heart.. they truly dont care or even if they did, not as deep as women

I may be wrong, just my experience has been that women ,that I have known, have been resolute once they have made their minds up,whereas the guy (me lol) are still crying. I may be wrong or maybe they are emotionally strong in someways and not others. I as a guy am maybe not a typical example. Let me put it this was. A young lady I know, is soooo sweet and I just cry when I think of her and her troubles.My eyes are tearing just as I write this, really. There may be a lot of steel hearted men around, but I think the really nice ones have a softer heart that is difference. Maybe that is a good test, see if your guys cries over things that he should cry over. Personally I see nothing wrong with men crying.

Reply 7

Original post by Anonymous
Everyone is different, some handle things better than others

I mean. Ofcourse, and im not judging him.. him crying doesnt mean he doesnt handle it well, just wonder whats the possibility behind the tears..

Reply 8

Original post by Anonymous
I may be wrong, just my experience has been that women ,that I have known, have been resolute once they have made their minds up,whereas the guy (me lol) are still crying. I may be wrong or maybe they are emotionally strong in someways and not others. I as a guy am maybe not a typical example. Let me put it this was. A young lady I know, is soooo sweet and I just cry when I think of her and her troubles.My eyes are tearing just as I write this, really. There may be a lot of steel hearted men around, but I think the really nice ones have a softer heart that is difference. Maybe that is a good test, see if your guys cries over things that he should cry over. Personally I see nothing wrong with men crying.

You are indeed such a good guy it seems like.. keep your genuine and sincere heart be like that till forever! I dont know, i never ever see him cry before. Cuz even this time he cry also its more on me accidentally caught him, not him just let it out like that..

Reply 9

Thanks. Se if you can get him to cry, maybe it is good for him, men always feel they have to hold it all in, and when you do "crack" them ikely it will come in floods .Thats how guys are I know.

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