i’ve been thinking about sex A LOT MORE recently…

i’m 18 and female and i am a virgin due to the fact that i don’t want to rush having sex - i want it with the right person, but finding the right person is hard as my mom doesn’t really let me out of the house or mingle with boys so i’m waiting till university to find the right guy hopefully!

anyway, i used to think about sex and have sex fantasies only sometimes. and i probably used to masterbate once or twice a week.
however since alevels have stopped, i’ve been thinking about sex every DAY and masterbating EVERYDAY

i’m unsure if it is out of pure boredom or because i’ve met this guy who i really really fancy. i’m unsure if this is healthy

Reply 1

Adz2042

Surely you're allowed out the house to see friends, during this summer period of downtime from school?
You could always ask your friends to set you up on a blind date with a lad, and go from there.

It could be out of boredom, as you have hardly anything to do.
Have you spoken to the guy you fancy and flirted, or at least asked to do an activity with (date)?
Doesn't have to lead to anything yet, but stepping over that fence might help break the ice a bit.

Reply 2

Oscar Gibbons

Be careful with your sexual fantasies because they end up taking on a life of their own. Mine started vanilla but progressed to degredation and humiliation fairly quickly, and now I have all sorts of fetishes that I can't get aroused if I'm not playing that fantasy, like wearing womens panties and urinating in them while fapping.