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What can be done about this harmful ex gf

I wanted options. I broke up with a girl after going out for a year! I finally felt single and free! Shorty after the end of the relationship I got with another girl regretted it and told my ex just in case we got back together. She took it the wrong way. I was single? Basically she started sending me vidios or her on dates and stuff ? I was like nah that’s me done! So we were broken up for 6 months! I was totally over it by then she wasn’t I wanted to put it to bed as she still had me blocked on social media it made me feel like there is a problem btween up! I asked her to meet up for a coffee she agreed wanting to be freinds. Then somone how she she’s managed to manipulate my emotions we ended up going a walk! She asked me to try again I was put on the spot and I froze I thaught like she would have know how I felt! I played along with her! And eventually I agreed to trying again to later find out she had slepd with somone I had beef with 3 times and anoth 4 men in this time we were appart and I had all ready slepd with her again before finding this it’s like she intentionally deceived and misled me to make me feel insecure hurt! And then she told me I’m going back to how I was before insinuating she wants to go **** other dudes again whilst I’m tryig to prosses what the ****ed up kind of situation am i in here I took it really bad it’s been nearly 2 years since she asked me to try again I seem to be in my head about the whole thing all the time I can’t get past what she’s done to me what can I do ????